Self Harm Recovery Daily Check-in : Sunday, September 20th, 2020
Hello hello beautiful beings <3
I hope you're all doing well and that you had a good week ! As usual on a Sunday evening, if you've had a bad week, I'm sending hugs your way <3 And even if you haven't had a bad week and just want some hugs then I'm sending some too ! <3
Today I just wanted to send out some positive vibes for you all. So whoever you are, wherever you are, congrats on getting through today ! Well done for having that strong soul and pushing through the hard times. For those who want to celebrate their success then lets celebrate ! For those who are still struggling, hang in there. We'll get through this together <3
To see world in a grain of sand
And heaven in a wild flower.
Hold infinity in the palm of your hand
And eternity in an hour.
- William Blake
Check in questions :
1) How are you doing today ? Anything that you would like to share ?
2) What are some key points for your recovery ? What helps you walk along your path ?
3) What would your path look like ?
Song recommendation of the day : new light by NIve
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1) I'm ok. Trying to stop worrying when people don't respond within a day if they typically respond within a day. I always fear something has happened to them
2) Realizing that inflicting harm only helps temporarily... I then have to deal with the aftermath of it, too. All of it in some way is harming my body, it's right there in the term but sometimes I forget that it's negative when I'm desperate. I may not like my body but it is mine for now and I can at least respect it by leaving it alone
3) Hm, I just kinda take it day by day, I don't really have a path laid out
@Lexloveslife
Hey there :)
Ah are you an overthinker ? I understand that tendancy to wonder what happened when people act a bit differently than usual. Though, for me, most of the time it's nothing dramatic just a little hiccup along the way. Hope all is well for you <3
Hum very true, very true ! Even if it does give that little relief it never lasts and when the feelings come back, it only feels worse ... Though I do agree, when we're going down the spiral, we forget about all this, if you have any tips for remembering it, I'd love to hear :) Glad to hear you want to respect your body more <3
Day by day is a lovely way of taking things, just living in the present without worrying too much about yesterday or tomorrow ! And living that wonderful adventure called life :)
Thanks for checking in, take care <3
@Slizzy564, hey there! :)
1) How are you doing today ? Anything that you would like to share ?
I'm okay but doesn't have anything to share.
2) What are some key points for your recovery ? What helps you walk along your path ?
The key point for my recovery is the realization that any problem has a weak point that can be used to solve it. The thing that helps me walk in my path is the mindset that I want this to be done. Done, finished, done, finished. I like it when my goals are accomplished with flying colors.
3) What would your path look like ?
My path would look like an escape room with gravity pushing me down. That gravity would stop pushing me down if I learned how to deal with my slothful nature. Then, I can finally proceed to the next room. x)
Thanks for the check-in and take care.
@LovelyOrangeJuice
Hey hey :)
Good to hear that you're okay ! Having nothing to share is fine :)
Oh that's a really good way of using one of your strengths to push through this ! I do agree : all problems do have a weak point, we just need to find it so that we can use it when needed :) I hope that you accomplish your goals with flying colours :) Now I'm wondering what your favorite colour(s) is/are ?
An escape room ! Sounds fitting ! Though all escape rooms have a solution so there's always that to look forward to :) I'm kinda curious : what would happen if you flipped your escape room round ? Would the gravity still push you down or would you be stuck on the ceiling ? :)
Thanks for checking in, take care too :) <3
@Slizzy564
Honestly, I don't have a favorite color anymore. But, I used to like the color yellow back when I was kid because of a fictional character.
If the room went round, then I'll be stuck in the ceiling, and that would be awesome. :)
Thanks for your reply.
1) How are you doing today ? Anything that you would like to share ?
I'm doing okay.
2) What are some key points for your recovery ? What helps you walk along your path ?
Remebering i have a whole future in front me helps. And that i really want to prove my parents wrong in all their assumptions of who i'll become.
3) What would your path look like ?
It looks like a long, narrow hallway with multiple white doors on the sides. And i have to enter each of them in order. All of them reminding me of my past. And the last door is across from me, its red with chains and locks. I assume that one will show my future, helping me with my final decision, showing me that my future is worth fighting for. (I hope this gives some people Elijah from 'The Originals' vibes lol)
@lydiarklistens
Great to hear that you're okay :)
Nice ! Indeed having a future ahead of you and being able to do as you please with it, must be a good motivation for you :) I hope that in the future, you and your parents can agree on the person you'll become !
Hum sounds like you need to let go of your past before you can move forwards into your future ! I like the imagery ! I hope you can unlock the last door soon :) I tend to think that any future is worth fighting for, you can't live in the past forever ! I'm guessing The Originals is a TV show ? I'm sorry I don't watch series x)
Thanks for checking in, take care <3