Self Harm Recovery Daily Check-in : Tuesday, December 29th, 2020
Hello hello beautiful beings <3
I hope that the week has started well and that you are enjoying the end of the year. For those having a harder time at the moment with all the festivities, hang in there. This doesn't last forever and soon everyone will be moving on to something else. If need be, hugs are here as always <3
As it's the end of the year and a lot of people are asking how the year went, I thought this quote was pretty fitting for today's check-in : There are years that ask questions and years that answer. - Zora Neale Hurston.
Check in questions :
1) How are you doing today ? Anything new or that you'd like to share ?
2) Is there a question that you never found the answer to ? If so, what was it ?
3) Have you received or gifted to anyone a act of kindness recently ?
Song recommendation of the day : Safe with me by Griffin & Audrey Mika
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@Slizzy564, hello!
1) How are you doing today? Anything new or that you'd like to share?
I'm doing great. I often say the same line because it's a bit complicated to describe everything. Anyway, laziness isn't that bad.
Too much laziness is a different thing, of course.
2) Is there a question that you never found the answer to? If so, what was it?
I never found an answer to existential questions like What happens if I die? What is my purpose in life? I often avoid asking this to myself, but I would love to ask someone to answer it. I'm assuming that a lot of people would get speechless. :D It's a bad idea to overthink this. So, we don't have to answer it if we can't.
3) Have you received or gifted to anyone an act of kindness recently?
Yeah. Kindness is quite similar to a give-and-take relationship.
Bye-bye! :)
1) How are you doing today ? Anything new or that you'd like to share ?
I'm fine. A little down I guess. No not really
2) Is there a question that you never found the answer to ? If so, what was it ?
Yes. Why is it wrong to commit $u!$!de? Why shouldn't I
3) Have you received or gifted to anyone a act of kindness recently ?
Yes I got a steel spinning target. I gave a book and some flower buds. I cleaned up around the bus stops I frequent.
@Flornhope
I ask myself that all the time, and especially about self harm. Like why is it bad to hurt myself temporarily so I feel a little better. I'm not hurting anyone.
But really, the thing is this: self-harm isn't going to keep working. and s uicide only offers an end, not a way out. Either way, there's no scenario where things get better in the long run.
Recovery is difficult, I know. But it's still better than these two options. That's what gives me hope, that if I continue to hold on, things could always get better
I hope things get better for you soon, my friend. Please take care ❤️
@honestpanda81
A great answer. I hope you keep your spirits high and enjoy the next year wonderfully . May the force be with you and all. Happy New year !!
@Actuallynobody017 And may the force be with you. And a wonderful new year. Thank you
@honestpanda81 Thank you for your encouragement and help.
1) How are you doing today? Anything new or that you'd like to share?
I'm doing great today. I got a haircut and spent time playing with my cousin. I've had quite a bit of fun
2) Is there a question that you never found the answer to? If so, what was it?
Why did such and such bad thing happen? No point asking, there's no real answer, and trying to find it never ends well in my experience. All we can do is move on
3) Have you received or gifted to anyone a act of kindness recently?
I got the most amazing stuffed penguin for Christmas in a secret santa. I love it to pieces. I also played a really wholesome game of Monopoly with my cousin, where we kept trying to let it each other win. We cheered each other on when we bought places, and we sometimes flat out refused to let the other person pay when they landed on our places. Best game of monopoly I've ever played
1) How are you doing today ? Anything new or that you'd like to share ?
Hmmm... How are YOU doing? Nothing new here.
2) Is there a question that you never found the answer to ? If so, what was it ?
Is there anything I'm willing to do voluntarily -- the smallest implementable intervention -- to get my life together?
3) Have you received or gifted to anyone a act of kindness recently ?
I don't have friends.
1) How are you doing today ? Anything new or that you'd like to share ?
I am doing good. I am enjoying my time as listener and i hope every body has a good and positive new year.
2) Is there a question that you never found the answer to ? If so, what was it ?
I wanted to know if we human beings are all connected . Was there any way I could know it by evidence ?
3) Have you received or gifted to anyone a act of kindness recently?
Yes I recently got a good positive review which reminded me of my good qualities. Also I would love to be kind to people in the next year.
HAPPY NEW YEAR !! 💖💛🎉🎆
