Self Harm Recovery Daily Check-in : Tuesday, November 17th, 2020
Hello hello beautiful beings <3
I hope that the week has started off well for you guys ! If need be, I'm sending some hugs <3
This check in will be short, here's a little quote : Ah kindness. What a simple way to tell another struggling soul that there is love to be found in this world. - Unknown
Check in questions :
1) How are you doing today ? Would you like to share anything ?
2) What does kindness mean to you ?
3) Do you think honesty and kindness are related ?
Song recommendation of the day : Fix you by Coldplay
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@Slizzy564
1) How are you doing today? Would you like to share anything?
I am alright! It's been a long week, I'm hoping to relax soon!
2) What does kindness mean to you?
Kindness, to me, is expressing warmth to somebody. This can be through conversation,or an act. It's important to be kind to others!
3) Do you think honesty and kindness are related?
I do! If you can be honest, in a kind way, that is such an admirable skill. Wether it be giving feedback, or just in general, I think being able to be both honest and kind is a wonderful thing.
@cocoakrispies121
Hi there !
Good to hear that you're alright ! I hope that your week comes to an end soon and you manage to get some down time :) What do you do to relax ?
Oh that's sound nice ! I like the idea of giving some warmth to someone, it's always appreciate especially when unexpected ! And you're right, it is important to be nice to others :)
True words there ! Being honest and kind is such a good skill ! I have to say that it's something that I admire in others :)
Thanks for checking in, take care <3
@Slizzy564
Of course! I loved the post :) To relax, I play video games, watch a movie, or clean my room! When I clean my room, it makes me feel like I'm not putting of the task until tomorrow, and that really helps me relax! What about you?
@Slizzy564
@Slizzy564
1) How are you doing today ? Would you like to share anything ?
I'm a bit sad. I got a 75 in a test and even though I still passed I feel like I could've done better.
2) What does kindness mean to you ?
kindness to me means that taking time out of your day to help others and check up on others. You try your best to treat others how you want to be treated.
3) Do you think honesty and kindness are related ?
By my definition of kindness I'm going to say no. I think that some people can be dishonest and be kind. They can lie where they'll be after school and say "I have to study for a test" while they could really go do something like helping their mom shop or help clean a park. They could lie because maybe they want to be alone while they do these things.
@sleepydandelionbby
Hey hey !
Oh I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling disappointed about your test, though it's good to hear that you still passed ! I understand that you're feeling a bit down, though was is done is done. Maybe you can learn something from this to help on future tests ?
Ah yes I get that, making time for others in our everyday lives can be hard to do but it's surely appreciated ! Sometimes just a simple 'how are you doing ?' can change someones day !
Hum that's pretty accurate, some people can lie to hide their actions even if they're kind ! And they could do it for many reasons just as you've said ! Though by the way you describe it, it doesn't necessarily seem to be a bad thing ?
Thanks for checking in, take care <3
1) How are you doing today ? Would you like to share anything ?
I dont want to keep going. Don't worry about me I'll be fine.
2) What does kindness mean to you ?
It can be helping someone with a task or giving them some information or being their to listen to them.
3) Do you think honesty and kindness are related ?
Yes. But some people believe in or use white lies.
@Flornhope
Hi :)
It seems like you're having a hard time at the moment, I'm sorry that you feel like this. Although you say that you'll be fine, it is a bit worrying the way that you express your emotions sometimes. I wish you peaceful times ahead !
Those are very good exemples of kindness ! Being kind to others is great, but being kind to ourselves is pretty good to :) Have you thought about this before ?
Hum true some people do ! Not always for the same reasons though.
Thanks for checking in, hang in there, take care <3
@Slizzy564
I'm sorry I will work on expressing them better. I have been told I should be kinder and nicer to myself. But I'm probably not that good yet. In my opinion if a lie isn't for the best interest of the other person and nothing contravertal it isn't a white lie. Thank you very much.
1) How are you doing today ? Would you like to share anything ?
I'm switching to the night shift this Saturday and I'm kinda psyched about it. I'm more nocturnal by nature, and my mental health is usually better when I'm not forced into 9-5. Especially since I can avoid customers and the plague, this is a very good thing.
2) What does kindness mean to you ?
I don't feel like I can answer this in a non-philosophical way, and I really don't want to think like that rn.
3) Do you think honesty and kindness are related ?
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@creativeusernamehere
Hey there !
Oh that's sounds good for you ! It's nice to hear that you've managed to get a shift that corresponds to your body clock ! And true, it's a good bonus that you avoid meeting too many people at the moment. I hope all goes well !
It's okay you don't have to answer all the questions, I only put them for the people who want to talk a bit more ! :)
Thanks for checking in, take care <3
@Slizzy564
1) How are you doing today ? Would you like to share anything ?
I am currently dealing with an extreme situation. I am feeling the pressure pretty bad and I want to SH, but I can't. Cos its not healthy. I also am basically too fragile to be put in this sort of situation. But it happens about every other week...
2) What does kindness mean to you ?
It opens souls.
3) Do you think honesty and kindness are related ?
Yes. Truth is important, but without kindness no one will want to receive it.
@1morday
Hi :)
I'm so sorry to hear about this situation that seems to be distressing you ! I get that you'd want to SH if you're pushed to your limits though it's good to hear that you remember that it's not a healthy coping mechanism. This situation does seem to be very eomtional for you, I get that you feel fragile in these demanding times, do you have anyone that you could rely on to help you ?
Oh wow, yes very true ! Simple but very truthful words !
Hum that's quite true too ! There's a way to say things especially the truth !
Thanks for checking in, take care <3
1) How are you doing today ? Would you like to share anything ?
Fine.
2) What does kindness mean to you ?
Not sure? it doesn't have a meaning to me. It's just a thing people are or engage in and has several different looks, not just one thing that makes it kindness.
3) Do you think honesty and kindness are related ?
No, someone can be honest but rude about it. And someone can be kind but dishonest about it.
@Lexloveslife
Hi there !
Good to hear that you're doing okay !
Seems like there a lot of things hidden behing the word kindness then and that can make to difficult to define !
Those are possibilities ! Do you feel like this is something that happens often ?
Thanks for checking in, take care <3
@Slizzy564, hello there!
1) How are you doing today? Would you like to share anything?
I'm doing okay, and I have nothing much to say.
2) What does kindness mean to you?
I don't know how kindness means to me. I only understood the word thanks to a dictionary.
3) Do you think honesty and kindness are related?
It isn't related to me. Someone can either be an honest person yet so toxic or an honest, decent person who is uncommon.
Thanks for the check-in, and take care!
@LovelyOrangeJuice
Hey hey :)
Good to hear you're doing well :)
Oh ? Well we can say that you've learnt something new then :)
Yeah that's possible ! There are different ways of going round honesty and kindness and everyone does it their own way !
Thanks for checking in, take care too <3