Self Harm Recovery Daily Check-in : Tuesday, November 3rd, 2020
Hello there beautiful beings <3
Happy tuesday ! I hope this week is going well for you and you're able to start of this new month well :)
Recently I've been dreaming a lot and it got me thinking. There's many different meanings behind the word 'dream'. There are the litteral dreams that we sometimes remember and sometimes don't. When we're awake, we can daydream and take ourselves to somewhere else for a short period of time. A dream can also be a goal, something that we want to acheive.
Quote : It does not do well to dwell on dreams and forget to live - Albus Dumbledore (HP series).
Check in questions :
1) How are you doing today ? Feel free to share whatever you want !
2) Do you dream a lot ? Is there somthing that you tend to dream about ?
3) What's your definition of the word 'dream' ?
Song recommendation of the day : Beastmode by Monsta X.
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#Stressawareness
1) How are you doing today ? Feel free to share whatever you want !
I'm just fine.
2) Do you dream a lot ? Is there somthing that you tend to dream about ?
Sometimes. When I do its normally nightmares. Getting attacked and violated.
3) What's your definition of the word 'dream' ?
I think its a lot like what you said. The sleep kind and the awake kind as well.
@Flornhope
Hi :) Sorry for the late reply !!
It's nice to hear that you're doing fine :)
I'm sorry to hear that dreams are mostly negative for you. Maybe one day they'll become more peaceful ? I'll send some nicer ones over to you ;)
Seeing as you have nightmares, do you prefer the awake find of dreams ?
Thanks for checking in, take care <3
@Slizzy564 Those kind of dreams arnt as bad, but they would fall into the nagitve side if someone else were to classify them. so yes I do prefer the awake kind of dreams. Less bad is good.
Hello! Gosh it's been ages since I've had the energy and focus to reply to a check in. Today I'm actually feeling fantastic, and have come to the realisation that the Kraken is rising from the sea. Hear me out! Hundreds of whales are beaching themselves, and for what? Why would they do this? My theory is that they know something we don't, which is, that due to the seas warming cause of global warming a creature we haven't seen for eons, so long ago, it's mere myth and legend, has awoken and is rising from its slumber. That's what I wanted to share.
I keep having really odd vivid dreams lately, it's been odd. Had a nightmare last night too, and it was pretty dark. Kind of scary not going to lie haha. Had a hard time sleeping after I woke up in a fright at 3 am haha.
Dream means a lot of things to me. Something unattainable, a far away something we wish we could do if we could do anything we could ever want to. A dream, when you sleep. A lot of things.
@memelord500
Hey hey ! Sorry for the late reply !!
It's good to see you here again ! It's nice to hear that you're feeling so well ! And thanks for sharing your thoughts on this topic :)
I'm sorry to hear about the nightmare the other night. I totally understand that it must have been hard to go back to sleep after that. What do you usually dream about ?
There are a lot of meanings behind the word dream ! It seems like you associate it with an utopic idea. Is there anything that you'd like to obtain ?
Thanks for checking in, take care <3
@Slizzy564
It's alright, any reply at all is always appreciated, late or not!! You taking time to reply is always much appreciated, so it's cool. And apologies for that quite odd rant haha, don't quite know what I was thinking.
I usually dream about random things, I don't really have recurring dreams except the odd one once in a blue moon. I've been dreaming about pirates a lot lately idk haha. I suppose it's more fantasy stuff I dream off, with really vivid imagery. I suppose that's what makes the nightmares not very fun, they're very real haha and hard to differentiate from reality in the minutes after I've just woken up.
I have a lot of things I'd like to obtain, but mainly, a life where I feel like I'm really living and not just existing, if that makes sense?
@Slizzy564
Hi sorry it's been awhile!
1) How are you doing today ? Feel free to share whatever you want !
Not good at all honestly I've been worrying myself to death and having lots of panic attacks. A famil member of mine who's my world is in the hospital and she had a uti and sepsis but that's gone and ended up having a stroke and she's not doin good. She's improving physically but not mentally she's so confused nd out of it I call her 3 times a day checking up on her and worry about her all the time. I just wish she'd get better fast because it's taking a toll on her. I have to be strong for her but I'm broken at the moment.
2) Do you dream a lot ? Is there somthing that you tend to dream about ?
Sleepwise I just have random dreams I've had 1 reoccuring dream of going back to my hometown and being stuck there and not being able to see my husband in person and be with him.
But as what i want to do in life all i know is I want to learn french and work to helpout but I have no idea what my dream is in life.
3) What's your definition of the word 'dream' ?
I normally think of sleep or a goal.
Have a wondeful day lovelies.
@itidc
Hey there ! It's nice to see you :) No need to apologize. Actually I'd like to apologize for the relay in my response.
I'm sorry to hear that you've not been doing well recently. Those panic attacks must wear you out ! I understand that you're worried for your family member, especially if they're very important to you. I wish you two all the best and I hope that they can pull through this. It's admirable to show her your support, though don't forget to take care of yourself too <3
Oh random dreams must be interesting, at least you get variety !
This is only my opinion here but I've always stuck to the thought that I don't have to have a dream in life. And wanting to learn french and to work can be a dream, or they can just be things that you want to do. Your life dream is your to choose :)
Hum so a bit of both ! :)
I hope you have a wonderful day too ! Thanks for checking in and take care <3
@Slizzy564
No worries and she's doing better she had surgery but I'm still worried I call her like 4 times a day bc she's so confused and I'm so worried about her constantly I've been in a huge depression and anxiety filled mess and things are finally looking up and I hope it stays that way for her
Idk I always thought like you find a passion and follow it and that's your dream I like art occasionally but I wouldn't like follow it well I love art but it's kinda just for fun and I've always just wanted to work at any place idc where but my husband loves technology and followed his dream and now his job works with technology so it kinda makes me jealous he knows what his dreams are and I have no idea well my dream was to come here with him now I just want a job but idk what my huge dream is
Sorry I'm rambling lol
@itidc
I'm glad to hear that she's doing better, though I suppose that she needs some rest after that surgery. Maybe after resting a bit, she'll be less confused. I suppose it's a lot to take in for her .. I'm sorry to hear that all this has been hard for you to deal with <3 Please do take care of yourself too, I'm sure that your family member would agree with me. You know the saying 'you don't have to set yourself on fire to keep others warm' ? I do hope that things keep looking up for her <3
Hum I think I understand what you mean. I don't know about you but sometimes I feel like I'm stumbling through life without knowing where I'm going. I get that people follow their passions but, just like you, I never really had a passion that was worth following. Sometimes I wonder if everyone needs to have a goal ? Maybe some of us are better just enjoying the ride, no matter where it takes us ? There's a quote that I quite enjoy about this : 'There was nowhere to go but everywhere, so just keep on rolling under the stars' - Jack Kerouac
Also no worries about rambling, I like it when people ramble :)
@Slizzy564
Im really bad at putting others before me because I don't think I'm enough I guess and I love that because I Def have goals and not like a dream thank you so much that makes me feel better that I'm not the only one
@itidc
Oh trust me, I'm pretty bad at it too but you're worth taking care of too ! You're just as worthy of love as those that you take care of and believe me, you're enough <3
That's the thing about these issues that float around our heads, we're never the only ones to think about them ! I'm glad this helped you :)
