Self Harm Recovery Daily Check-in : Tuesday, September 22nd, 2020
Hello there beautiful beings <3
I hope that the week has started well !! Here's a little poem that I like :
Dance beneath the stars
as you drink in the night.
Let the thunder overtake you
as lightening fills the sky.
Feel the force of nature
penetrate your skin,
spin with the world
as the magic sinks in.
- Christy Ann Martine
Check in questions :
1) How's the day going ? Feel free to share anything :)
2) Have you got anything planned for the week ?
3) If you could be any type of animal that lives in the sea, what would you be ?
Song recommendation of the day : a little boy by Akeboshi
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1) How's the day going ? Feel free to share anything :)
My day has been good.
2) Have you got anything planned for the week ?
Nope, nothing this week
3) If you could be any type of animal that lives in the sea, what would you be ?
I would be a Dolphin, i looove them.
@lydiarklistens
Hi hi :)
Great to hear that you've had a good day :)
Weeks with nothing planned are quite enjoybale, I mean you can do whatever you want, be free ! :)
Oh yeah dolphins are great ! And they're super intelligent :)
Thanks for checking in, take care <3
@Slizzy564
I loved the quote. So powerful and touching. Thank you.
1) How's the day going ? Feel free to share anything :)
This day has been great. I had to go to school for an activity and I could see my friends and my best friend. K missed her so much and I'm really happy now.
2) Have you got anything planned for the week ?
To catch up with school and work on my assignments
3) If you could be any type of animal that lives in the sea, what would you be ?
A Narval. They are majestic, gracious and beautiful and they 're really tranquil.
@Kimmkimm
You're welcome ! I really enjoy sharing stuff that I find :)
Oh wow ! Sounds lovely :) It's always great to be able to meet up with friends especially if you haven't seen them for a while :) Loads to catch up on :) I'm happy to hear that you're happy :) Happiness is contagious :)
Oooh good luck with the school work ! I hope it goes well for you :)
Yeah ! You know I kinda forgot that they existed (how could I !) ... You're right : majestic is a good way to describe them :) You could just chill out in the sea ;)
Thanks for checking in, take care <3
@Slizzy564
1) How's the day going ? Feel free to share anything :)
I have just been so up and down. I was meant to have a day or at least an afternoon off, and I just worked all day to try to get ahead. I kept telling myself to take at least an hour to veg, and I didn't, I just worked, and in a way so agitated and scattered between different things. And the urge to SH is hovering over it all... Ugh... Some friends dragged me out for dinner and forced me to eat (otherwise I was not going to eat today). I feel calmer and more settled now. But still super fragile and volatile. So this is what it feels like to be an adult... One of my friends who I had fallen out with a bit wrote me a nice email, which I really valued. When I feel like I have failed someone, it is super triggering to me. And I tend to blame myself when there is interpersonal conflict with another, which I recognize is not alway appropriate. I guess its ok to share this... seems like oversharing. But we're friends, sort of. I mean, anonymous friends or something... :)
2) Have you got anything planned for the week ?
Besides work? Um... Again, some concerts at the weekend will be nice.
3) If you could be any type of animal that lives in the sea, what would you be ?
A manatee. But, possibly a merman who was convinced he was a manatee... I would also go for seahorse. Seadragon would be cool too...
@1morday
Hello there :)
I'm sorry to hear that you've had a rollercoaster day. Sounds like you have a lot of work to do, though I have to say that I agree with your friends : a break is always needed and eating is important too ! I understand then when you've got a lot on your plate, there are emotions that bubble up and it's not always obvious how to cope with them, hence the SH urges kicking in. I get what you mean about feeling fragile and volatile, as much as it can be hard to deal with, I'd say that makes you human you know ? We're all fragile in some way and we all break sometimes, none of us are super humans who can deal with everything happily. Ah yes the feeling like an adult ... I don't quite know what being an adult really means ... I think we're all just grown up children ;) I'm glad to hear about your friend, that must have been really nice ! As for failing people, you know it makes two people to build a relationship, friendship, whatever, it also makes two people to end it, so even if you feel like you've failed someone, well not all of that is your fault ... I do understand the tendancy to blame oneself for it, I have that problem too x) And for oversharing, no worries, you're free to share what you want ! Otherwise I wouldn't ask ;) I'm glad you compare this to friendship, that really made my day ! :) I try my best to make these check ins feel like you're talking to friends, so yeah we can be anonymous friends :)
Oh concerts ? Which concerts do you enjoy ? :) I've never really been to a concert !
These are such good choices ! To be honest, I didn't know what a seadragon was, looks pretty cool !! :)
Thanks for checking in, take care (and don't forget to take breaks and eat !!) <3
i love the quote and the picture! so magical :)
1. my day is going okay. my asters are in bloom. today my mom asked if i was self harming and i was able to say no and mean it.
2. this week i am determined to unsubscribe from all the colleges sending me emails! i get a lot and it makes me anxious
3. i love so many sea animals, but i would be a dolphin. they've been one of my favorite animals since i was little and looking at them makes me happy :)
i listened to your recommendation and i really liked it! the cover art is very cool. an offering: time's arrow by the weakerthans.
@mollyviolet12
Hey there :)
I'm glad to hear that you like the check in :)
So nice to hear that you're having a good day :) Congrats on being able to say that you're not self harming :) <3 It's great that you can talk about his with your mother !
Ah I understand that get spammed by emails mustn't be the best of experiences ! I hope that by unsubscribing you find some peace and quiet :)
Yay for dolphins ! They are pretty cute :)
I listened to your recommendation, a lot of happy vibes, just what I needed today :)
Thanks for checking in, take care <3
