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@charmingPine9831
If you can't afford it then there is only 2 options:
1. More limitation/Seeking alternative to boost the value.
2. Priotized things

I will give you an example.
if you only have $1.000 but you have $1,500 need then you should know what to prioritize, meaning learning to know what is essential and what is to lose, I mean when the things get better you could gain what you want when you can afford it but when you don't be able to live then your will or want is not matters, because the dead ain't choosing.

First, Prioritize essential goods such as
1. Food and water
2. Shalter
3. Hygine
This is the most basic things.
Second, by knowing what is essential or urgenly needed then you will know what to reduce and what things could be allocated to other things or investment to produce more value or income.
Third, understand which level are you in.
Are you in brutal basic survival?
Are you in extreme basic survival?
Are you in medium basic survival?
Are you in what level?
Third, I know once you have a child then you are racing with time, then learn to be realistic but fair enough towards your children.
Be honest and frankly to your child, told them what things you could and couldn't afford so they can get a basic idea on their parents ability.
I know it wasn't fun to be realistic and certainly it wasn't a pleasure to be realistic but it will keep your expectation and plan within reach, not too high, not too low, just balance.
So, in subtitute for your limitation in finance then you should added more value in better communication and team work because family is about a team player.
Fourth, learn to remember the reason or the purpose you are getting married.
I mean ofc ppl will said cause of love ppl are getting married but then what is the goals?
You are stay commited to achieved that goal, that dream you both plans and have.
Also within the journey of life advanture, learn to adjust the plans and the goals to be more realistic, cause life is being very dynamic these day and era.
Well, if the reason you are married is not because of love then,
You should act like business person, I mean what deal is deal, broke the deal and deal is off, meaning if your reason or purpose of marriages isn't about love then what is the commitment or the deal at the beginning, which party isn't fulfilling the deal and thus, you should communicate it like a gentle business person.
Have you fulfill your part of duty, only then you should have your demand.
You can't said and demand to your husband to fulfill his duty when you are ain't.
Fifth, Learn to allocated some portion of your income or time for things that you could afford for entertaiment but if you can't then at-least you should have some kind of entertaiment so that your psychology side isn't being overwhelm for ex. watching drama is free, walking in the park or street in the city is free, getting the fresh air is free, talking in here is free and thus, this is part of getting better in psychology part without paying with money but only with time which I believe you have.

Well, This is my advice for you.
Tried to read it careful and think if it was suitable for you.
Then if you have any questions to ask then feel free to reply my msg.
Oh, one more important things, don't compare your family with others, it will make you feel intense all the time cause the other family will always seems better than yours but we only know the surface.

Well, hope it could help you get better.
Thank you.