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TW: Self harm and eating disorder talk ❤️

User Profile: Emanne111
Emanne111 August 28th, 2025

Hi all, I'm new here and I self harm. I have for a long time and I don't know how to stop. It started when I began dealing with an eating disorder and has been going on for two and a half years.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 August 29th, 2025

@Emanne111

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Welcome to seven cups!

So nice to meet you.

Thank you for being honest, I know it is not easy!

I'm sorry that you are struggling.

Both with the eating disorder and the sh.

It's important that you are safe!

Have you talked to anyone or gotten any kind of help or support up to now?

It's not easy but healing is possible!

You deserve to feel happy and secure in yourself!

Sending you my best wishes!

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User Profile: Emanne111
Emanne111 OP August 30th, 2025

Thank you so much! I have not gotten any help because I can't tell my family. I really appreciate you!

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User Profile: kiasspring
kiasspring August 29th, 2025

@Emanne111 hey, you!! I’m going through the EXACT same thing! It’s been a year and a half, almost two. The eating disorders for me started a LONG time ago, though. I promised myself this: once I turn sixteen, I can’t self-harm anymore. Do I know if I’ll follow through? No. I don’t. I hope I will. I feel like I can. I have a month left, so what I’m doing is “letting it out” and just doing what I can now to prepare myself to let go. It’s an addiction, right? Like alcohol or drugs. It’s an addiction, feeling the pain and seeing the blood. I know it is for me. So I degraded. I went from my usual object to something more difficult to harm myself with. And I degrade bi-weekly or so until my sixteenth birthday, where it’ll be almost impossible to do anything. For the eating disorder, I can’t help much with. I’ve been struggling with that for much longer, and I’ve gone from eating everything in sight to counting calories, and sometimes I still do. It’s what I’m planning to work on next. Maybe you can set a goal for yourself as well?

lots of love, Kia.

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User Profile: Emanne111
Emanne111 OP August 30th, 2025

I have tried to stop with the sh I have set goals and I have failed. Everytime I say I can't do it anymore I want to do it way more. I'm sorry that you are struggling with both sh and an eating disorder. I hope you can reach your goal.

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