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Help with separation

User Profile: Cranedude
Cranedude November 17th, 2025

Me and my wife are currently separated living in different homes still married no plans for divorce still do everything together when I’m on my two weeks off she still tells me she loves me and misses me I do everything with the children help her with anything she needs and I meet all her needs she tells me about but when I tell her mine she tells me she don’t know how to help me she has no timeline on when we will get back together but she said she doesn’t want this to be permanent we are in counseling but nothing makes sense about all this and I get a weird feeling about it Help?

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User Profile: fruityMirage6614
fruityMirage6614 November 17th, 2025

@Cranedude

Hate to be separated from somebody I truly luve.

User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 November 17th, 2025

@Cranedude

I'm sorry you are going through this.

But I think it's not fair, for your wife to expect all you are giving her and being  there, while not giving you the same energy and honesty back.

I think in counselling you need to address your feelings so you'll know where you stand.

Your feelings matter too 💖💜

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User Profile: Cranedude
Cranedude OP November 18th, 2025

Thank you @amanda84

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 November 19th, 2025

@Cranedude

A pleasure 💜 

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User Profile: adaptiveGrace2089
adaptiveGrace2089 November 18th, 2025

@Cranedude

That must be very difficult, dealing with uncertainty in your marriage. Im here to listen if you want to talk about it. 

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User Profile: Cranedude
Cranedude OP November 19th, 2025

Thank you

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