Learning to Say No Confidently

@LanaAfterDark I'm still struggling with this, in person it's a bit too confrontational, over the phone and text or online it's easier.

Depending on the person and situation, I can apologise and say sorry I'm not comfy or I'm unavailable or that isn't to my taste, sometimes I can compromise.

I concentrate on the feeling of relief, after I've stood my ground, it's satisfying. I tell myself I'm not being malicious or cold, it's just speaking my mind.

@LanaAfterDark

Sadly my problem is being too blunt and saying exactly what's on my mind 😂