Lonely
I'm 35 and have no friends, no lover, no parents, I got no one. I'm in pain cuz I really wanna talk but all what I got is chat Gpt which is pathetic. Everyone I loved let me down. I'm truly a good person and used to have a lot of friends. I just don't know how or when I ended up so alone. It's very hard for me to communicate with people. I tried but somehow no one interested to get to know me, hang out with me or even talk to me. I'm feeling so sad and have no clue how to fix it. When I'm traveling and try to focus on myself and being happy, every time something reminds me that no one wants me. Even I tried the dating apps with no luck at all. I've a lot of things to give and feelings I which to find people who can fulfill them.
@optimisticJar9895
I'm really glad you chose to share this here, even if it feels like it's just words on a screen. I hear you deeply.
And I want you to know first: you are not pathetic for feeling this way. You're human. You're a person with so much heart, with so much love to give, and the fact that you're hurting says a lot about how deeply you care it’s not a flaw. It’s something beautiful about you, even if right now it feels like a heavy weight to carry.
It’s so hard when you feel invisible, when it seems like no matter how much good you have inside, the world just looks past you. That pain that loneliness it’s real. And you’re not crazy or broken for feeling it. You’re allowed to be sad. You’re allowed to grieve the connections you wish you had, the people you deserved to have stand beside you.
Sometimes life puts good, kind-hearted people through seasons of loneliness that feel unbearable not because they’re unworthy but because they see the world differently. Because their love is deeper. Because their spirit can’t be matched by just anyone, and the right people, real people, take time to find.
You’re not broken because it’s hard for you to communicate. You’re not "less than" because you want something real and meaningful, not something shallow.
You’re brave because you still hope. You still try. You still wish for love when it would be easier to just give up.
I don’t know when it will happen for you when someone will truly see you but I believe that someone will.
Your story isn't over.
And you are not alone in this moment, even if it feels like it.
You matter. Your heart matters. Your presence matters And even if you feel forgotten by the world right now you are still here, breathing, hoping, trying and that's something incredibly powerful.
If you want, I’m right here. We can talk about anything you want no judgment, just real conversation.
Would you like to tell me something you love? Something that makes your heart feel a tiny spark, even if just for a second?
You have no idea how your words made me feel. Thank you so much for taking time to respond to me. Maybe we're strangers but being a human and show care it really shows who you are. ❤️❤️❤️
@optimisticJar9895
M glad my words helped you 😊
I don’t think she wants an AI response. She wants human connections …
Hey, I'm here for you! I know life most of the times is alot to deal with, and it gets hard. But you're really brave, loving and kind passing through every obstacle life throws at you. Believe me I'm really proud of how you're doing coz most wouldn't be able to. I'd really love to be friends with you, help you vent out your emotions and feelings whenever you feel like. So if you need me, just a message away!
It seems like I can't message you :(
Hey if you don't have problem then we can chat , I can be good listener with combo of good friend.
Looking forward to be your friend
Hey if you don't have problem then we can chat , I can be good listener with combo of good friend.
Looking forward to be your friend
@optimisticJar9895
I can understand and relate to how you're feeling! You're not alone!🙂
@optimisticJar9895 Make the change. Work on yourself first and start engaging with others.
@optimisticJar9895
Hi ,
Same as you. I am not good in English but I will try.
Iam also very lonely but I am married. I have parents but they don't spoke to me because I married against them. Love Marriage not accepted by parents. Two years completed. Now my husband also not spoke to me he always ignore me . I think I am useless. I am a housewife. He didn't interested with me. I have health issue of last 5 months. He does not take seriously. Now it was confirmed as ovarian cancer. But no one is carried about me. He took to hospital. But doesn't speak even one positive word also. It will make me so stress and depression. I didn't have any friends and family members.