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Why do I always think my husband is cheating on me?

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Last Updated: 12/23/2020 at 8:46pm
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Top Rated Answers
greatfulBraveheart
May 21st, 2016 10:45pm
Maybe its trust issues. Like sometimes people think what happened in their last relationship will be the same for the new relationship.Or you are afraid of it happening.
charmingMusic32
June 1st, 2016 6:10am
I think he is busy and not giving you enough attention because of the work load, that's why you are thinking in that way.
ChxrlotteGiorda
June 3rd, 2016 3:53pm
I believe that it is very easy to work yourself into a state about a loved one cheating, as it stems from the idea that they may be unsatisfied with you. It is the best thing to talk to your partner about how you feel ,as 9 times out of 10 nothing is going on and your fears can be lessened x
SmellyCat89
June 3rd, 2016 5:19pm
It's simply a matter of trust. Unless our other halves give us obvious signs of cheating, we shouldn't assume anything. Honesty is the key -- have a good, long conversation about how you feel.
CarmenCares
June 10th, 2016 9:15am
If you think your husband is cheating on you, has there been concrete, unexplainable evidence of this behavior? Or is there something else going on that makes you hesitant to trust?
Anonymous
June 12th, 2016 12:11pm
Rule number one Trust!!! If there is no trust there isn't anything that leads to assumptions. It comes from both ways in the relationship too
Anonymous
June 13th, 2016 10:44pm
It is casue by overthinking and lack of trust. As long as he isnt he should have no problem chcking in or letting you see his phone or emails untill you can ain trust
BassistBriar
June 15th, 2016 10:09am
If you feel your husband is cheating on you, sit down and discuss the issue with him. Express to him your concern and talk about the issue at hand.
Anonymous
July 9th, 2016 7:39pm
there is not trust in the relationship,you stop sharing to each other,how you feel ,with the years going on.
feelthelyricz
July 17th, 2016 5:39am
A lot of times we like to replay the worst case scenario of a situation. You also may lack serious trust in your husband.
BreatheTheVoid
July 21st, 2016 7:02am
Perhaps you lack self-confidence and don't see the things that make your husband in love with you. Or perhaps he hides something on his side. Or maybe you just don't have enough trust in him.
MrRachmaninov
July 22nd, 2016 6:22pm
Confidence may be not fully built in the relationship, or maybe this is something you've brought from your past (experiences with parents, girl/boyfriends, etc.).
SilverLily16
July 24th, 2016 4:31am
Trust issues or insecurities. If he has betrayed your trust before then that could be a reason for thinking what you do. If he has not betrayed your trust then you could be insecure. Also, our past has a lot to do with the way we think. Maybe in a past relationship you were treated a certain way that leads you to believe that you will always be treated that way.
SilentSerenityy
July 27th, 2016 9:21pm
If he's never given you reason to distrust him, then the insecurity is coming directly from you. You might not feel good enough for him or that you're not keeping things exciting in your marriage, so you worry he'll stray. Invest all this wasted energy of worrying, into communication and spicing up your marriage!
Shinyshayla123
July 30th, 2016 10:35pm
You may have these thoughts because of something he does to cause you to feel this way, it's important to understand and talk to your partner about any underlying probblems you may be having
Suiginy
August 4th, 2016 6:47am
Maybe because you have insecurities or you've been abused and/or cheated on my spouses in the past or you have family/friends that have experienced this.
miraculousBeauty49
August 4th, 2016 3:37pm
Maybe there is an underlying trust issue or he may be leading you to think this way to tease you. Don't take any drastic measures until you're sure on Anything.
mysteriousKiwi37
August 6th, 2016 9:14pm
Maybe you might have proof or eveidence but its best to sit and have a chat with him, might give you a peace of mind.
Anonymous
August 7th, 2016 1:38am
I always used to think that my boyfriend was cheating on me, because he was distant, and didn't want to spend time with me. But maybe you feel like he's being distant, spending time away, or sometimes on his phone. Maybe if you confront him, you would be able to explain these feelings to him, and he'll understand.
kindandCalm321
August 11th, 2016 4:07am
I'm sorry you feel this way. I have felt insecure in relationships as well. It sounds like you might not trust him. When does this happen?
Anonymous
August 19th, 2016 8:24pm
Perhaps the two of you have become distant. Perhaps he spends a little too much time away from the house, away from you. Perhaps something shifted between you both. Try talking to him.
Anonymous
August 26th, 2016 6:12am
only you know why you think that! you can always ask you husband straight up if you think he is cheating or not!
Anonymous
August 27th, 2016 10:01pm
Did you ever get any proof ? Does he show you his affection often enough ? How do you feel about him ?
IntuitiveDrops
August 31st, 2016 9:36am
Did you have bad experiences with ex partners? That could be a reason. It could also be your intuition.
thoughtfulPomegranate86
September 7th, 2016 3:02am
Maybe he's not being open enough with you, generally when you are suspicious, there is a reason for it!
WNoelle10
September 8th, 2016 8:52pm
Has there been a past violation of trust that y’all have not fully worked through? Or, in a past relationship, was there a violation of trust that you still hold with you? If so, then these issues would lead you to be suspicious and guarded.
ColdWinterNights
September 9th, 2016 9:00am
Insecurities and past infidelity can affect relationships. After someone has been unfaithful to you, it's scary and frightening because you are afraid it can happen again.
Anonymous
September 17th, 2016 2:55am
Maybe it's because you have had a bad history with people cheating or you have heard many stories about it and are noticing the signs of "cheating" when they aren't real
Anonymous
September 21st, 2016 2:22am
There are many reason for that only he would really know the answer for it but you must never blame yourself for it it was his mistake not yours
Anonymous
September 21st, 2016 4:25pm
Maybe because you don't trust him or you had a previous bad experience or maybe you are just right!