Does he/she love me or someone else?
15 Answers
Moderated by Danielle Johnson, MSED, Community mental Health Counseling, LMHC
Updated: Jul 10, 2018
Anonymous
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Jan 26, 2015
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Communication is key. There may be signs that may show you lack of affection, but the best way to know is to ask them straight out.
Breakups can be hard
lilunicorn
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Jan 24, 2015
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this is complicated. the best you could do is talk with him/her and its normal to be scared about it. but, you know, if you never shoot you'll never know (:
NewRomantic677
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Nov 23, 2015
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This is just that one question everybody wishes there was an easy solution to, but doesn't have one. Love is a complex emotion that varies from person to person . wanna know if he/she loves you, but afraid to ask? Well, then the best way to figure it out is to observe as much as possible. As much as you can, observe. Look at body language, and what they say to you, also how often they wanna hang out and be with you. Now, everyone is different and I've known people who try to hang out lesser with the people theyre in love with! Remember not one size fits all :)
rosyviolet
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Sep 29, 2015
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That's a question that should not even pop up. You would know not when they tell you but by their actions.
divinewillpower86
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Apr 16, 2015
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Love is emotion and can't be judged in just a second. It needs evaluation but many a times negative thinking effects on our understanding badly.
GoldenDragonEyes60
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Apr 30, 2015
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That's a question that you're going to have to ask yourself, if you have doubts then perhaps you should consider asking the person you're wondering about. However, this is a choice you're going to have to make on your own.
librabrandi89
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May 8, 2015
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What does your heart and intuition say? If you already have these questions and feelings maybe you should question what is leading to this?
Kindness101
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May 28, 2015
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The best to know if he/she loves somebody else, is to ask them. Then at least you know where you stand with that person.
Bblovetj
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Nov 16, 2015
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If you are ever unsure if your partner loves you then the best thing to do is talk to him/her about it,
bratgurl14
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Nov 18, 2015
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well it depends on what happens if he acts different then he/she does but if he is not then he loves you
Caringmagic60
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Feb 9, 2016
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I don't care who he loves.I know I love him.I respect his feelings.All I care about is him being happy
Greatlistener87
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Sep 19, 2016
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Why don't you ask her or him whom he/she loves. Better hearing it from the person itself to be sure.
Anonymous
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Jan 3, 2017
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It complicates your mind thinking if he/she loves you or not.It was really stressing for me. But soon I realised if they love you, you can feel it. Maybe they won't take the first step so uiu have to try. My motto is ' If you find your Prince Charming, go for it! ' Don't confuse your mind thinking, try asking.
WestWind92
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Jan 9, 2017
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Easy. Ask him. Please, enough of the mind games. I don't understand why if someone likes someone they don't go to that person and do something about it. Rather than sitting in some dusty old room writing love sonnets no one will ever read.
miraculousHeart73
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Mar 27, 2018
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It's hard in a relationship when you suspect your SO of loving someone else. Just ask them how they feel about the two of you and ask if they love you. You know, love you more than a friend. It may be hard if they love someone else, but we are all human and have to accept it. Things will get better