How can I win my boyfriend back when we meet after him havin a month away from me, we split and agreed to meet a month later?

You can be the kindest most considerate person on the planet but it is not up to us how others make their choices. If its meant to be it will be. If its not understand that its the way its supposed to be. I used to wish my ex boyfriends would come back to me but then I realized its not up to me its up to them and when they did come back, they didnt come back for the right reasons. They came back because they were lonely not because they wanted me. Instead of focusing on the guy focus on what makes you happy. You deserve the best.

I think the term "win" suggest that there is a barrier between your feelings and you must identify your wants and needs. I would suggest that you two talk and see what each person wants and needs and if you want a commitment longer than two months than you will need to talk about it. I would suggest that talking and communication are the biggest factors that will help build this relationship and determine if this will work again. I would also think about the environment that each of you are in, and determine if the time is right to continue a serious relationship.