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My boyfriend broke up with me. Then immediately hooked up with a girl. It almost seems like the break up was to go be with this girl. No he realizes how much he actually wants to be with me. Take him?

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Anonymous on May 15, 2018
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If he changed for real forgive him,if he didn't then you have to choose what's always best for your emotions and life,maybe he learned the lesson
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Anonymous on Nov 3, 2020
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I’m sorry to hear that. However it shouldn’t take him hooking up with someone else to realise what he had. You will find someone who knows what they have and will appreciate you. What’s to say he won’t do the same thing if you take him back? It will only become a cycle. If he didn’t respect you from the beginning, he doesn’t deserve you ever. I relate to this situation, it is not worth the mental strain. You are far better than that and worthy of respect, love and appreciation. I hope I helped and I hope you make the decision that is best for you.
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