Why do I always am the assumed bully just because I happen to be strong?
eternalHero77
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May 3, 2015
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Some people don't know how to handle truth and aren't able to handle a person who will stand up for their beliefs.
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Molliee
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May 10, 2015
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People always see the victims of bullying as weak people, which is most definitely not the case. By showing a strong character, people assume you are never in the vulnerable position, which again is not true as bullying can happen to anybody.
Quakey
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Jul 28, 2015
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It's a stereotype. Generally, larger people (height, build, etc.) get pegged as the agitators, when really it can be anyone causing problems.
Anonymous
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Dec 4, 2015
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Because people seem to associate strength with the qualities of a bully due to all of those movies and such that seem to depict a bully as strong or overly so.
Anonymous
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Dec 14, 2015
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Instinctually, people judge on appearances as a means of survival and as bullies have stereotypical characteristics of being mean as well as 'strong', people automatically may assume this without you being a bully. I wouldn't let it get into your head if you're not one and prove them wrong and show you're one of the good guys! (:
Anonymous
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Dec 28, 2015
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I don't know but I think you can go to another listener and ask them this question, I am sorry if I did not help you
Anonymous
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Aug 7, 2017
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Bully's often happen to be big and strong. It could happen that people automatically associate strong with bullying because of past experiences they had with bullies that were actually strong.
