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2sleepy2function
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Commitment problems or just not compatible?
Relationship Stress / by 2sleepy2function
Last post
 December 22nd, 2019
...See more So i decided to date my friend. Shes cute, and makes me extremely happy, but when we talk about the future we just dont have the same ideas. For me i want someone who is responsible, and smart. But she just wants to be supported, and is very irresponsible. I know people change with time, but the irresponsibility is kinda turning me away. We talk a out our plans for the future, and she barely wants or cares to graduate highschool or go to college. Idk if its commitment issues i have, or actual preferences. She has a lot of problems as well, and i want to help her but they r things that she has to deal with. Im supportive but she doesnt want to, and I understand since i wouldnt want to face my inner demons too. But i really want out of the relationship while staying friends, i mean she just confessed and in the heat of the moment i said yes.Our ultimate goal for each other is to support each other and bring each other joy, but our views towards school and other things are extremely different. I want to stay by my own values but at the same time she is extremely supportive and a wonderful partner. We r both in highschool, but ive recently been thinking that i should wait till college or a little after to start dating. Maybe focus on school more since it is my top priority despite how bad that sounds.
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Y would they do this
Relationship Stress / by 2sleepy2function
Last post
 January 13th, 2019
...See more I have friends whoi have detached myself from because they were toxic. They would use codenames, and whisper but always tell my its none of my business or i dont need to know. Today one of them posted a meme for the school to see. It was of a man choking and cat. They lables the cat (cat is also my nickname) as "ugly ass (my name), and themself as the abuser. im crying cuz i didnt do anything to provoke this and literally just stopped hanging out with them and eating lunch with them. I dont know what to do because when my bff confronted them they said its a racist girl from art camp ( i never went to art camp) basically someone else with thr same name. Im crying because i dont want burden or worry my family. My sister just lost her child a month before giving birth, my mom just got out of the hospital and my father is taking care of her the best he can ( my parents are legally disabled). Idk what to do and im crying because as soon as it was posted people immediately messaged me asking if it was me. Ileft my last school because someone threatened my life, and thisis the only good private school i. My area. I want a good future, and im scared that i might have to leave a good school and ruin my future. Im crying and shaking and idk what to do.
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Backup friend
Relationship Stress / by 2sleepy2function
Last post
 November 26th, 2018
...See more im always the backup friend. Nobody actually gives a damn about how i feel unless i make a scene. A friend of mine once called me at ten when i was sleeping just so she could cry about her friends and how they didnt want to be around her. I consoled her. I was her best friend until the issue was solved. After that she never messaged me unless she needs a shoulder to cry on. The rest only hang with me and interact with me because there is nobody else. Ive witnessed all of these girls making plans to hang over the weekend in front of my damn face. They didnt even ask me, they only asked if movies or mall would be better for them. Last year i was failing math and i cried everynight. Nobody even batted an eye. When another girl was getting a B math i said "how do u think i felt" she responds "nobody cares, that was last year it was so easy it doesnt matter" i started tearing up and just ate a sandwich in silence while the others spoke. Nobody did anything. I was crying and nobody was there for me. Im only with these girls because im scared to be alone! Im so scared to be loney and alone. I mean we have had ups and downs since the sixth grade, but they only help me or talk to me when they need
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