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5ue
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Not sure if i love my partner and we are in a very volatile relationship and currently apart?
Relationship Stress / by 5ue
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 March 12th, 2018
...See more I really care alot about my partner, he is a really good guy, simple, happy and mostly kind. However he has a really bad temper and seems to lose it with me alot. We are quite mismatched in that i am more intellectual and deep and he is more casual and simple in his approach to life. So whats the issue? I am constantly questioning how i feel and if i am doing the right thing, we have been together for 14 months and have done alot together but we argue and fight constantly. I care for him deeply and cannot seem to let go, but i also question if i do love him, i have never really been in love. He is very loving and caring and affectionate, but when we fight or split he totally cuts me off and wont talk or try and resolve until he is ready - this could go on for days which is very traumatic for me. I am very sensitive. So we will spend days apart and i will be devestated and then he may return and we will try again but we always land up in the same place. We have split again and this time he has booked me on all social media as i did this previously. I have written, i have apologised even though it was not really my fault this time, i dont know what to do. Do i move on. Remember that my heart is involved here on and i am so very hurt, so its easy to say walk away.
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