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...See more I recently find myself thinking and dreaming about an Ex that things ended terribly with. He did not have a job, didn't go to school, did drugs, and he had cheated on me multiple times. He was a pathological liar. But I felt controlled by him and I felt that I couldn't function without him. I loved him and was prepared to be in a serious relationship with him, but he wasn't. He got me involved with drugs. And I felt like he ruined me beyond repair. Although the relationship hadn't officially ended we had grown distant. We would go months at a time without seeing each other. And he was talking to one of his exes who he had cheated on me with. I met the man I am with now. And he gave me the strength to do the right thing. I Called him and told him I met someone else and I was moving on and I never wanted to speak to him again. He just said okay. I hung up and blocked him from everything. For awhile he tried different ways to try to contact me or would have friends spy on me. I don't think any of that is happening anymore. We've been apart for 2 and a half years now. I didn't think of him much if any until recently. I'm not sure why... I guess im just worried that he will forever hold or control part of me and I want to get rid of that feeling. I also feel like I can't talk to my SO about this because it really would likely cause more damage to our relationship than it would help. In the same way I also feel I should be able to talk to him about anything What do you think? Advice?

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