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Ahjuan
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Trouble moving on
Relationship Stress / by Ahjuan
Last post
 October 13th, 2019
...See more Long story short, my ex gf cheated on me and she broke up with me saying i was too controlling, manipulative and pocessive. That happened 2 months ago, and she just said she needed time to think about what she has done but she would definitely come back with me. During these 2 months, we would meet every so often and have sex and sleep together..i i was too weak to say no and i wanted to do these stuff too. However i know this is a toxic relationship, and that i i wont be able to work out between us. She keeps messaging the guy she cheated me on with and meeting him (and probably having sex with him too). Its just that i always tell her that im moving on and don't want to see her or talk to her again but she keeps talking me into it. She doesn't get much from me, i am broke, have no house and no job but she says she can't let go of me. That she loves me and is not using me? But still seeing that other guy? Im so confused. I want to move on and continue with my life, which i put on halt for her..but i just can't seem to be able to move on. Help? She's always on my mind and all the memories of our 5years relationship just keeps flooding in my mind.
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She cheated, we broke up but still wanna see me
Relationship Stress / by Ahjuan
Last post
 May 20th, 2019
...See more Hey there. So my GF of 5 years cheated on me, and has been cheating on me for a few months, and I discovered that she went on a trip with the guy instead of a "work trip". Long story short, i brought it to her, she said she didn't like the way i treat her, not loving enough, that I was too controlling and suffocating. SHE broke up 3 weeks ago, but we are both having a hard time to let go. We still talk to each other every day. She says she still loves me, so she doesn't want me to leave town as she wants to "clear her mind" before coming back to me (i asked her if she wants to come back, and we try to work on our relationship). So its its been 3 weeks already, she says she's still confused, and in a mess, but will definitely come back to me when she has a clear mind? However, I also discovered that she keeps writing to the guy she cheated on me with everyday and still went to sleep with him a couple of time. Brought it up to her, she says he's the only one who understands her, to whom she can talk to about het feelings and her "depression". That they didn't do anything sexual or whatever, just talk..? What should I do? I really wanna move town, block her everywhere ect but I aldo wanna give her a second/third chance... Ow and during these 3 weeks we'd also have sex..she wanted to so did i..was it an error?
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