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AlliXxoo
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Narcissistic Abusive Relationship
Relationship Stress / by AlliXxoo
Last post
 June 9th, 2021
...See more so we had a fight the other night. i had simply asked him if he could turn around cuz things had been off the whole day, and he told me to shut up and leave him alone. it made me get upset for how he was talking to me, and so it also made him more annoyed with me. he then lashed out and threw my things, broke some of my things, verbally abused me, and kicked me out of the house at 2am and didn’t care what happened to me, even when i had nowhere to go. i had recorded him on my phone with how he was acting, and playing it back, i was talking calmly and he was calling me names and throwing my belongings around the room.... we had a talk the next day and he wanted me back. but he never owned up to his actions, he said it was my fault. he is a teacher and so i’m debating if i should send the video of him into the school cuz if i was a parent then i wouldn’t want my kid to be in a room with someone so unstable and easily triggered. he also threw his phone at me cuz he got mad at me for filming him, it missed me and dented the wall. and he blamed me for that too of course. i just feel like he tries to turn everything towards me and make me the blame, he gaslights me (which is what he was trying to do that night to try and get more of a reaction out of me, but it didn’t work) he is also older than me, and he calls me immature/selfish/manipulative ... sorry this is so long, i really just needed to vent as it still bothers me with how he didn’t care what happened to me at 2am or where i went
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Narcissistic Abuse
Relationship Stress / by AlliXxoo
Last post
 September 6th, 2021
...See more how do i deal with someone who is verbally and emotionally and narcissistically abusive? he says there are reasons why he is the way he is, and it’s due to his stress (he supports his parents financially and works nonstop with multiple jobs (teacher, tutor, stock trader, investor, deals with all family finances, airbnb host), and owns numerous investment properties) during stress he swears and calls names and gets very irritated, treating me and his family similar but of course everyone else he is an angel to. i think taking your stress out on loved ones is weak, but if i talk about any other issues (of mine) he says it’s not a priority and brushes me off
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