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AngelicDolly21
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Super Anxious
Anxiety Support / by AngelicDolly21
Last post
 August 31st
...See more I am writing here because I am feeling really anxious and antsy. Yesterday my bf and I kinda had an argument and he stopped responding to me. I messaged him today just to say hi / morning. He hasn’t read it yet. I am anxious because I keep wondering will he read it? Will he message me? It’s just scary because I’m realizing I was arguing with him over something silly and now maybe he hates me and might ghost me to break up with me and I may never hear from him again….. What do I do?
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Kind Of Anxious
Anxiety Support / by AngelicDolly21
Last post
 July 10th
...See more So after my last thread my anxiety kind of reduced but I am anxious. Today is the day my boyfriend meets his ex that he says is his close friend. I’m anxious because anything could happen not physically at least but emotionally he could regain all his feelings for her and well that’s the scary part…. But considering he is 6 hours ahead of me, it feels a bit better so by the time I wake up maybe he will be home or maybe he will be headed home. Or so I hope so…. I am trying to not stress out too much because I want to try and trust his word. I’m trusting his word but I don’t fully want to put my heart out there with fully trusting him until I know how he feels after the meet up. But I do have a question, does it make me insecure or say that I’m doing too much since I asked my boyfriend to give me a code word when he comes back home so that before he calls me my anxiety is less stressed out? The code words I had was the word “Good” which means he still wants to be my boyfriend and that it means she is still just a friend to him… his ex and then the word “Bad” if after the meet up he gained feelings for his ex all over again. It’s just for me I prefer to know where I stand so I’m not wondering when he calls me and I answer and at least in my view I feel like it might ease my anxiety easier to actually accept a phone call from him knowing where I stand before he actually calls me. I am hoping for the best and hoping that his love is strong enough for me that he won’t gain feelings for his ex all over again. I could really use support and advice anyone has for me. But if he does respond with the code words I listed, should I ask to call him to hear his voice though? I usually never ask to call but I feel like once my anxiety is eased I need to hear his voice to be able to calm down easier at least.
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Very Anxious & Antsy
Anxiety Support / by AngelicDolly21
Last post
 July 7th
...See more Hey so I’m new to how this thread posts work but I wanted to say why I’m anxious here. So I am very anxious and antsy because a few days ago my boyfriend told me that he planned to meet up with his ex girlfriend (he dated her like 10 years ago and she was pregnant by him but aborted the pregnancy) I expressed to him that I was uncomfortable that he was going alone to see her and I would prefer if either he brought someone with him or if she brought her boyfriend since my boyfriend and herself claim she has a boyfriend. But my boyfriend told me that by me acting the way I am that I seem jealous and that I don’t seem to trust him….. Well seeing an ex alone that was once pregnant by him yeah I’m gonna be uncomfortable and I get that they recently got back in contact and are recently friends again but I felt like he should’ve listened to my emotions and at least came up with a solution to make me less anxious and afraid that he will gain feelings for her again after he meets up with her. So yeah I’m anxious that he will gain feelings for her again and I just can’t bare to hear from him that he gained feelings for her again romantically. I’m so anxious I wish the meet up with him and her would happen so then maybe when he comes back from meeting with her and he possibly calls me he may tell me if he gained feelings for her again or not and he still only wants to be with me….. But even then I am too afraid to answer his phone call if and when he does meet up with her which is why I was considering him just saying either the word bad and explaining just saying the word bad means he has feelings for her again and good means that he still only wants to be with me…. I’m just very afraid and anxious. It’s hard to cope. Im trying so hard to hide how anxious I am from him but I feel like I might have a panic attack in my sleep when I try to sleep until the meet up is over with because like if he hears me have a panic attack in my sleep and I wake up from it I would be too afraid to tell him the truth…. And I already bought a ticket to see him again next month since he told me 3 times that I should buy the ticket because he wants to see me…. What should I do? Anything I can do to cope or tell him if I end up waking up from a panic attack in my sleep? I don’t wanna be honest with him about it right now but like I don’t wanna lie to him about a panic attack if I have one and he notices…. Please help me with ideas on how to cope and relax. I don’t see my therapist till Wednesday and I just want to be okay and try to survive my anxiety and overwhelming stress. It’s too much for my heart to handle this much anxiety and stress especially about my boyfriend. Who I love so much.
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