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BMOmarie87
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PathStep 10 Compassion hearts40 Forum posts6 Forum upvotes15 Current upvotes15 Age GroupAdult Last activeSeptember, 2026 Member sinceJune 3, 2026
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Feeling Forgotten
Relationship Stress / by BMOmarie87
Last post
August 11th
...See more My fiancé and I are long distance and have been for a little over a year now. With his new job, he keeps busy and I just feel like he has been giving work all of his energy and not leaving any for me. Sometimes I will only hear from him once a day (like a 10 min phone call and that’s it). I try my best to text him through out the day to let him know what I’m up to, or that I miss him, or that I love him, and I don’t get much back. He works with college women’s athletics, and I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t jealous that all these other girls are getting his time and I’m not. The girls are sweet and I don’t think anything malicious is going on, but it just gets old when he talks about them, posts about them, and can’t take the time to text or call me. We have never had issues in the past, he has been nothing but loyal and loving, so I don’t understand if it is just his job, or if I am doing something wrong. I try to be the “cool chill partner” and not bring it up so much, but this has been brought up before. I scared that when we get married I will just be reduced to “the coaches wife”. For now, I’m just hate being alone. I’m scared to get too close to anyone here since I’ll be moving away at the end of the year, so my social life has been suffering. I would appreciate any advice.
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Rough Few Days...
Depression Support / by BMOmarie87
Last post
June 4th
...See more Hello, I am new here and really struggling. I am post grad and already going through a career change. I loved my first job, but I was let go because they knew I was going to be moving away. I lost all my friends from that company because I don't work for them anymore. My fiancé and I are currently doing long distance, and I just feel SO alone. I am 100% an extrovert, so this has been really hard for me.  I have some things lined up for the summer, but nothing in between. I spend my days sitting at home, doom scrolling on my phone, and wearing my pajamas all day. I have no motivation to do anything. I haven't brushed my teeth or showered in days. I have applied for multiple part time jobs just to give me something to do, but I have yet to hear back from anyone.  I am glad I found this community, to remind me that I am not alone. 
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