Rough Few Days...
Hello, I am new here and really struggling. I am post grad and already going through a career change. I loved my first job, but I was let go because they knew I was going to be moving away. I lost all my friends from that company because I don't work for them anymore. My fiancé and I are currently doing long distance, and I just feel SO alone. I am 100% an extrovert, so this has been really hard for me.
I have some things lined up for the summer, but nothing in between. I spend my days sitting at home, doom scrolling on my phone, and wearing my pajamas all day. I have no motivation to do anything. I haven't brushed my teeth or showered in days. I have applied for multiple part time jobs just to give me something to do, but I have yet to hear back from anyone.
I am glad I found this community, to remind me that I am not alone.
@BMOmarie87
Hi. I'm sorry you're going through a rough patch right now. I hope you find the right activity and outlet for yourself as you wait to hear from your applications. Maybe a new hobby might help fill your spare time too? 7cups is a good place to feel some belongingness indeed. I've been going through something heavy as well and have spent time here just to cope. I wouldn't say it's perfect, but it helps. Have a good day. :)
@BMOmarie87
I'm sorry that you are struggling so much and on your own.
That's not easy at all 🩷
I know it's hard but start your day off when you get up , shower, brush teeth, get dressed and maybe go for a walk.
You'll immediately feel better.
Instead of doom scrolling.
Come here and get to know people in the chatrooms.
We'd be happy to see your energy and get to know you 🩵
Hi, I'm sorry that you are feeling like this. It sounds like you have been carrying a lot of change and loss all at once, and my heart truly goes out to you. Losing a job, being separated from your fiancé, moving away, and feeling disconnected from friends are all significant life changes, and experiencing them simultaneously can feel overwhelming. Anyone in your situation would likely be struggling. The fact that you are reaching out and sharing honestly about what you're going through shows strength, even if it doesn't feel that way right now.
@BMOmarie87
According to the theory there are no 100% extraverts as well as intrverts. If you consider youself as an extravert you'd better finding your intravert's features and improve them.
Not brushing teeth or not showering is It's not prejudicial in itself, it may be simply a part of your lifestyle but also might be concidered as the signs of the incipient depresiion, pay attention to it. please.
