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BeDifferent161
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How to Fill the Void?
Relationship Stress / by BeDifferent161
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 August 22nd, 2016
...See more It's been almost two years and everything I do reminds me of him. I've been in several relationships since then, but all I do is think of him and how they aren't him. How can I stop this? Maybe it's because the relationship didn't seem quite finalized....we only broke up because high school got super busy. We've tried to get back together twice before, but now his college location has stopped anything. He seems to have pushed me out of his mind and moved on....but I can't no matter what I do. We were amazing together, and I can't stop thinking of that. Is there a way to fill the empty void that he left in me? I can't become close with anyone else because anything couple related brings back memories of him: he brought out a different person in me and I refuse to show that person to anyone else now. I can't keep getting into relationships to move on, only to have neverending thoughts of him. He's the first person I've ever loved....so how do I move on?
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How to get over someone?
Relationship Stress / by BeDifferent161
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 December 21st, 2016
...See more I dated a guy a year ago and we only broke up because high school was getting too crazy and busy. We've tried to get back together, but things got in the way. I have been in 4 relationships since then...and I am still thinking of him 24/7. All I can think of is "what would he do" "well this guy isn't like him" I compare everyone to him because he was a great guy. There is no chance for me to be with him again, as he moved away for college, I'm in a relationship right now, and I'm pretty sure he doesnt miss me at all. Usually it takes as long as the relationship was to get over someone, and it's been longer than 3 months. (Yes, I know. My relationships never last long. It's in another thread). Why can't I move past him? Is it because I don't really want to, even though I tell myself I do? What should I do?
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