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BeforeWeBreak
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PathStep 13 Compassion hearts84 Forum posts21 Forum upvotes58 Current upvotes58 Age GroupAdult Last activeOctober, 2025 Member sinceOctober 26, 2025
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Hello!

You can call me Bwb for short. I'm 25 and identify as demiromantic and demisexual. I'm friendly and non judgemental 😊 I'm a little bit crazy but thats fine right? All the best people are, even the mad hatter says so! 😁

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I hate me
Depression Support / by BeforeWeBreak
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 October 31st, 2025
...See more I just have a lot of self hate today. I always do stupid stuff when I drink. I agreed to something I knew would make me feel bad. I don't recognise my own actions. If younger me could see what I've become, I think she'd be mortified. I feel sick and not just because I'm hung over, but because I'm a disgusting person.
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Music recommendation
Self-Harm Recovery / by BeforeWeBreak
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 November 3rd, 2025
...See more If you haven't heard of them should definitely check out Citizen soldier. Their song Tattoos is a really positive outlook on SH scars and really helped me coming to terms with my scars. Another one of their songs that helped me through some hard times was burden. Seriously check them out they understand. A little history, they were formed in a psychiatric hospital. Their music focuses on making you feel better and showing that you're not alone. ❤️
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Hiya
Newbie Hub / by BeforeWeBreak
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 October 31st, 2025
...See more Hey, hi, hello. You can call me Bwb. I'm new here 😊 I'm from the UK. It's like 1am here... i should be asleep 😂😂
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Demiromantic/Demisexual
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by BeforeWeBreak
Last post
 October 28th, 2025
...See more Hi hi, I'm new here. I don't really know anyone else that identifies the same as me so I decided to look for somewhere to talk about how I've been feeling. I have an issue where I always develop feelings for my best friends. I've always been the same. I develop feelings and then I become obsessed with their happiness. I get a little overbearing. I'm currently happily engaged to the man I've been with since I was 15. However our relationship is sort of open, meaning I have no boundaries to live by. I seem to be unable to differentiate between romantic love and friend love. I develop feelings for my best friends and then I develop sexual attraction because I would do anything to make them feel good. I've pushed away a lot of friends by the way I become. It's like my love is so intense and over the top, it becomes obvious and makes them uncomfortable. Anyway... I've recently started to become good friends with a girl from work. We message constantly, call frequently and hang out now outside of work too. Our friendship is quickly developing and I already love that girl to bits. She's absolutely bonkers and I love it. I'm just worried that like always I'll develop feelings and that's going to push her away. I've already lost so many friends this way. I'm so sick of feeling rejected. I'm just worried I'm going to get weird and it's going to push her away. Why am I like this? Why can't I just have a friend and not develop feelings for them? Why is my brain like this? Does anyone else have this problem? Any advice would be helpful too
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