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User Profile: BeforeWeBreak
BeforeWeBreak October 30th, 2025

I just have a lot of self hate today. I always do stupid stuff when I drink. I agreed to something I knew would make me feel bad. I don't recognise my own actions. If younger me could see what I've become, I think she'd be mortified. I feel sick and not just because I'm hung over, but because I'm a disgusting person.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 October 30th, 2025

@BeforeWeBreak

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You are not a disgusting person.

You are human and struggling.

Drink lowers our inhibitions and makes us do things we otherwise wouldn't.

It's important to not be too hard on yourself, and try to take things one day at a time 💕💜

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User Profile: BeforeWeBreak
BeforeWeBreak OP October 30th, 2025

Thank you Amanda 💜

User Profile: BeforeWeBreak
BeforeWeBreak OP October 30th, 2025

Thank you Amanda 💜

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 October 31st, 2025

@BeforeWeBreak

A pleasure 💜 

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User Profile: decisiveHuman7373
decisiveHuman7373 October 31st, 2025

You are NOT a disgusting person! You are a good person who may have made a bad choice Give yourself some Grace and start over again in the next minute, hour, or tomorrow! Whatever works for you. If you can, instead of telling yourself you are disgusting, tell yourself how decidedly delightful and dazzling you are or how gorgeous, OR ALL OF THE ABOVE!

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User Profile: BeforeWeBreak
BeforeWeBreak OP October 31st, 2025

Thank you decisiveHuman, sometimes it's hard to like yourself let alone love yourself

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User Profile: decisiveHuman7373
decisiveHuman7373 October 31st, 2025

You are NOT a disgusting person! You are a good person who may have made a bad choice Give yourself some Grace and start over again in the next minute, hour, or tomorrow! Whatever works for you. If you can, instead of telling yourself you are disgusting, tell yourself how decidedly delightful and dazzling you are or how gorgeous, OR ALL OF THE ABOVE!

User Profile: decisiveHuman7373
decisiveHuman7373 October 31st, 2025

@beforewebreak yes it can be hard to be yourself and I completely understand that! Self love comes before trying to love anyone or anything else. So when you find yourself trying to behave like someone else, remember that you have to love you first, before you love anyone else ent to act like them…. Just a suggestion, it’s always easier to give the advice than to take it. This I know!

I hope you have a wonderful day and HAPPY HALLOWEEN 👻 🎃