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BlueBlurFish
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Relationship Anxiety
Anxiety Support / by BlueBlurFish
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 May 22nd, 2021
...See more I feel insecure and very sad knowing that men however much they love their partners, will always want to have sex with other women. A good man won't act on it but that doesn't stop them from checking out other women. I know it's just looking but I guess it makes me sad that I will never be able to change that fact about men. I can only try to not sabotage my relationship with him. He is a great person and would never cheat but the natural desires of the male species can never change and I don't know how so many women can not be sad knowing their partner would actually sleep with other women if they had the chance and wouldn't be caught. How do I not care about that fact and stay happy?
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Relationship Anxiety
Anxiety Support / by BlueBlurFish
Last post
 March 24th, 2021
...See more Hi. I've just decently discovered that I may have relationship anxiety: - Wondering if my partner cares about me - Doubting my partner's feelings for me - Worrying if they are going to leave me - Focusing on our differences and incompatibility even when my partner has confirmed that it's not an issue to them As a result of the above, I usually end up sabotaging my relationships by pushing them away (and expecting them to fight back, then getting upset when they don't) or I will test how much they care (and as a result making them upset and creating conflict). I've been dating my current partner for 5 months now and things are going great - but I still do all the above! How do I manage this fear of them leaving me before I sabotage the relationship (again) and they actually end up leaving me? I've been doing OK (for now) but I'd love some tips if anyone has any! Thank you for reading!
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