Relationship Anxiety
I feel insecure and very sad knowing that men however much they love their partners, will always want to have sex with other women. A good man won't act on it but that doesn't stop them from checking out other women. I know it's just looking but I guess it makes me sad that I will never be able to change that fact about men. I can only try to not sabotage my relationship with him. He is a great person and would never cheat but the natural desires of the male species can never change and I don't know how so many women can not be sad knowing their partner would actually sleep with other women if they had the chance and wouldn't be caught. How do I not care about that fact and stay happy?
@BlueBlurFish
hey!
it sounds like you feel upset over something that you believe about men. while it is possible that a lot of men might sleep with other women if their partners would not find out, that is not true for all men. it sounds like what you are feeling upset about, is a limiting belief. i think it might be worthwile to reflect on the root of that belief and think about why you think so. this can help you change your belief, and therefore not be upset over it.
hope this helps :)
Hi, I hope you are okay, however I think your anxiety here lies in a preconception of men which I feel is actually unfair. men AND women will sleep or look around if they are not 100% happy, or if they are just generally open people. However many people don't feel the need to look elsewhere when in a relationship. My current partner could be in a room with the sexiest person on earth and he would still say it wasnt them, it was me. You can find someone who feels that way about you I think everyone can. I feel its part of finding the right person but.. please don't pre judge. Listen to your partner and don't doubt his words :)
