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I might lose my partner
Relationship Stress / by BrunoTheDog
Last post
 June 21st, 2024
...See more Ik some people have issues in thier relationship, but me and my gf get along really well and I believe that we are made for eachoter, even after 10-11 months. You're probably wondering why Im posting this if our relationship is so "perfect". Well thats bc it isn't. Even tho me and my gf love eachoter alot, there is a problem that might break us apart forever. And I wish I meant it metaphorically, as if we're about to break up but no, it's something much worse than that. This is not the first time I post about this but Im desperate. A few weeks ago a friend told me that my gf said she wants to kill herself. Ik the app doesn't help people with suicide, but please read the whole thing. I don't have the words to express how much it hurt me to think that I might have to live the rest of my life without her. She told me it's not my fault and that I would've genuelly made her happy if bad things didn't happen in her life. Knowing that I've done everything I could and it's still not enough, knowing that it could happen any day when I expect it less, everytime I talk to her and she makes me smile or laugh I remember that Im going to lose her soon, it all hurts so much in a way I cant explain. Everyday Im lying to myself that it's going to be okay, I try to be happy and tell myself that it's not something I can control, but it's not enough. I destroyed myself trying to help her and now things are even worse. Even tho sometimes I can pretend things are okay, I still remember and it hurts. A part of me believes in her, that she can get better because she said she's trying for me even if she doesn't think she can, while the other part of me already gave up, Im sure Im going to lose her and I've never been more afraid. I feel like there's no one to help and support me either because my parents told me they're there for me but then they started judging my gf and saying she faking only to get my attention, even tho most of the time she tried to hide from me so I don't worry, or chose my feelings over hers. Mum also said I was being dramatic and acting as if this is the worst thing of my life when I started crying bc she wanted me to talk abt it. They just put more pressure on me and when I managed to feel better WITHOUT THIER HELP, they didn't even check on me. For a whole week they were talking to me abt it everyday but when I seemed better they couldn't care less, they didn't even made sure things got better or not. I just feel so helpless and alone in this situation and Ik I'll be even more lonely if she leaves me. She the only person that ever cared about me and if I lose her I'll lose myself. Again, Ik this app doesn't help people with suicide and Im sorry for sharing this here, but if anyone can help me in any way, with any kind of advice, support, anything, Im thankful. Ik she should be going to therapy but we're both minors, I forgot to mention and she doesn't want to tell her mum about it, might be bc her mum is one of the reasons she's like this, she made her have a difficult childhood and things in thier family aren't great rn either. Thank you for reading everything and any kind of help that you can offer, whether it's support, whether it's advice, to me it matters alot.
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Im afraid I'll lose the person I love most
Relationship Stress / by BrunoTheDog
Last post
 June 8th, 2024
...See more This is my first time on this app and I need help. First I'll mention that Im a girl, bisexual and I have a girlfriend of 10 months. We're both teenagers, not adults. We're also in a long distance relationship. My gf is the best person I have ever met my entire life and Im sure I'll never find someone like her. But the problem is she is depressed. I accepted that, helped her as much as I could, but just a few days ago a friend of hers told me she's suicidal. Ik this app doesn't help people with suicide, but first please read the whole thing. I've been really upset about the news and told my parents. Even tho at first they tried to help, now they only talk about how she's a bad and manipulative person because they don't believe she is metally ill, yet ik my gf and she never used or manipulated me, even tried to protect my feelings by not telling me what's wrong. Ik she's caring and she's done so much for me, I wish I could help her more but I don't know how. And now my parents are just putting extra pressure on me instead of helping. As much as I wanna keep being with her, I started losing hope that she can be helped. The thought of losing her hurts so much, but I have two options: I break up with her and start moving on, knowing that even if she won't kill herself there's still so much to fix, especially cause we're kids and doing long distance, or I stay with her and keep hoping that things wikl eventually get better, despite what my parents are telling me. Both options are risky, since I never know if she will get better or not. But I just can't imagine my life without her, I can't look at somebody else. And even tho Im young Ik I love her and that she the only one I want. I need help with which solution is the best, how I can make my parents understand she's not a bad person and that I love her, but most of all how can I help her.
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