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Catluver03
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21 looking to learn more about managing anxiety, depression, moving forward, and stress

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My bf has been cheating online 2 yrs now actively meeting up with ppl
Relationship Stress / by Catluver03
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 August 10th, 2025
...See more Im still in love with him how do i leave? Do i have to wait until i hate him? Wait until i respect myself? I know i need to but i physically cant he is the only person i have in my life and the only relationship i have ever been in. I am 21f any advice would be huge because i cant leave i dont have the strength to i am such a broken down peice of who i used to be and i have cut everyone else off besides him. I feel the most alone i have ever felt in my entire life and the only person i have is the one who is actively destroying me
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How to stop letting others decisions impact your feelings?
Self-Esteem / by Catluver03
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 July 11th, 2025
...See more I am aware I internalize all of my feelings and take things super personally. I am aware I have no control of other people's actions. How do I stop taking choices and actions of others (family, significant others) so personally? I always blame myself for others actions telling myself I'm not good enough, it is my fault the made those choices, etc. An example would be my dad not responding to me for months and ignoring my messages. I know he is battling with mental health struggles and rationally I know I didn't do anything wrong and he's not mad at me but my brain still reacts like he is mad at me and doesn't like me. I'm not sure how to stop blaming myself for things that I rationally shouldn't blame myself for and becoming so emotionally affected.
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