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Confusedyoungadult1996
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Relationship Stress / by Confusedyoungadult1996
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 October 27th, 2022
...See more I am with my bf for 1,5 year we match perfectly but I sometimes rather lay on the couch then to do another task in the house (I do alot I work 40h, do laundry, cooking mostly , ironing,...) but when it's 8pm I rather lay down instead of cleaning some more. He is constructing our house still so he does alot and he gets frustrated. I putted more effort and it was fine... 3 weeks ago I got an operation and i still feel weak so I rest more then usual, last night he got frustrated not saying a word and leaving me sleeping on the couch I tried to talk with him today but he says I just say sorry and don't change although I really am at my limits I feel exhausted at work.... I don't know how to change his mind and I am scared he will break up with me. I love him so much but this drives me crazy Any advice?
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Relationship Stress / by Confusedyoungadult1996
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 October 9th, 2022
...See more My bf is very demanding, he works alot himself and expects that from me too. He doesn't say but I feel if he goes to workout and I watch some TV after cleaning up the whole house btw he thinks I'm lazy. I love him dearly and do my best to keep him happy. Now last Monday I got an operation (I need 3w recovery and it was in my face) so everything hurts and I can only do one small thing a time before I need to lay down. At first he was helping me sweet but not cleaning up after him at all so I still did cleaning up during the day even when I need to rest. But I love him so I still did that with a smile Yesterday he just went silent on me for hours I kept asking what was wrong he kept rejecting me playing on his phone. Not talking, not touching me,... after almost yelling at him he said it's just always his fault if he argues with me... He said it bothered him I went to lay down instead of closing of the house and putting lights on. I just said I was sorry because I didn't want a fight but I still feel miserable of my operation. I'm under painkillers and he knows it... and I did the dishes and the laundry over the day which drained me... He is a sweet guy and has way more good points then this but it just hurts that I try to do what I can and all I get is those reactions. I feel like if it's not bad for him he doesn't care... At those moments I don't know if I should stay with him? Can anyone relate to this feeling?
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