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Cyanjet526
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Fantasy or reality?
Relationship Stress / by Cyanjet526
Last post
 April 12th, 2020
...See more My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now. I caught him messaging girls a few times & explained if he did it again, I'd leave. Well, ever since he doesn't message girls but rather watches porn daily. Sometimes more than once a day. & if he isn't watching porn, then he's masterbating to pictures of females that he knows. He will literally log into Facebook & use the same females over & over. He claims, he's addicted to porn because he was molested by his friends brother at a young age. States he doesn't remember a time without it, but I find it so weird he has to look up ppl we know. Literally doesn't look me up, but CONSTANTLY looks at other girls/ porn but he cannot stand the idea of me doing it. To either. Now that I left, he's been "trying" to prove that he doesn't want other females. Says he doesn't need those females. Says he wants to stop. Am I insecure because he cheated? Is it wrong it's people he knows? Now everything just feels like a lie, and a game & quite frankly I just don't get why he would do it if he claims to be so in love. Is this a way to just get me to see this isn't a big deal so I come back and he dan keep doing it?
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Addicted to Porn
Relationship Stress / by Cyanjet526
Last post
 April 1st, 2020
...See more My boyfriend got caught messaging girls, waaaaaay too many times. Well recently, he's claiming he's addicted to porn which is why he can't stop cheating, watching porn etc. Then, whenever he gets caught he lies and makes it seem like nothings going on when in reality he also looks up adult entertainment on Instagram and unblocked his brothers ex girlfriend, who blatantly acts like a slut. Was looking them up on social media along with my friends and then I found him on craigslist looking up swingers. He claims he's never done anything physical, and that it's not what it seems but Idk if I should believe him. Am I blowing this all out of proportion? Is it time to leave? Should I be supportive of his addiction? But why should I support him, if it means he has availability to hurt me 24/7 cuz he's addicted to porn?
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