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Devin44
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Relationship Stress / by Devin44
Last post
 February 3rd, 2024
...See more I don't know how to handle this but I feel like I need some perspective before I do anything rash or hurt us both. So me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 months now and it has been a hard relationship from the start. Not because of one of us but the distance between us. We live in different countries and our cultures are very different. There is a language barrier between our families and significant others (mainly myself and his family) so meeting them would be hard. The cultural differences are huge even though we haven't spoken on them much because we are still trying to understand each other and bond. He is a very sweet guy who has never done anything to make me question him or his life that he lives there. I have tried to show him the same for me because I want him to know that I am here for this and will try to make it work.(even if my brain says I don't deserve him and he deserves someone closer and better for him). My real question here is is there a way for cultural differences and language to not get into the way of this? I know we are young but this feels different than a young relationship.
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Site Updates / by Devin44
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 August 3rd, 2022
...See more Almost every time I try to contact a listener it's because it's been a rough week and I need to vent or talk about something and get a new opinion or just have someone listen. So many just start to leave people in mid conversation making us feel worse than when we started
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