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Number of ratings12 Number of reviews10 Listens toTo Teens LanguagesEnglish, Italian Listener sinceMay 17, 2026 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 91 People helped43 Chats190 Group support chats9 Listener group chats0 Forum posts76 Forum upvotes141

Bio

—Hi,welcome to my profile!

—I'm a teen listener ✨ (not a psychologist or professional,just someone who will listen to you and try to support you the way a friend would)

—I love making people feel better,and I hope I can make a positive impact for you (:

—I talk with only one person at time. You deserve the best focus and attention,so i'll try to give it :D

—I'm online at 00:00~01:00 in UTC+2 almost everyday!

—If it's okay with you,I'll check up on you regularly and we can set appointments together. We can set little goals too,and see your progress on them <3

🌸 ~ Here are some happy sentences for you: 🌸

You're not excluded,you're just exclusive 😎
You're not weird,you're just limited edition

3. Just because there are people who lose two legs,it doesn't mean that losing one is okay and doesn't need to be healed. Anything that hurts you matters and deserves to be taken care of!!

4. You're a person,not a trophy (:

—Something else about me!

-7Cups Internship Dropout (I have 2 weeks of experience..that's not half-bad XD)

-Quality Listening Program student!

—Thank you for reading,have a wonderful year filled with luck! 🍀

Recent forum posts

What's your 7Cups Story? 🍀:D

Icebreakers and Games / by Ednamius

September 10th

Are you too hard on yourself? It hurts more than you think ):

Anxiety Support / by Ednamius

August 15th

...See more Did you know that 40% of young people globally struggle with perfectionism and are too harsh with themselves? :/ It is in fact common to think "I should stop being so lazy,i'm disgusting. I don't deserve joy or breaks until I make it. I'll start working insanely hard from now on,even when I feel sick!! I'll do insanely big things!!!" (setting impossible,"perfect" goals) Aren't breaks a loss of productive time? Breaks aren't a loss of important time that lowers your results. But they increase your performance,and knowing how to do a healthy,relaxing or happy break actually improves your work/study quality drastically :D If I punish myself will I give better results? Many people believe that punishments for failing lead you to completely avoid that ending (out of fear) and succeed,but it's actually the opposite. You'll be much more likely to fail,as the moment will turn out to be an exaggerately important exam for yourself,making you anxious of the extreme consequences (and anxiety reduces temporarily your problem-solving skills and performance during the key moment). Failure will feel unacceptable,even if it's human and it happens to everyone,even in small ways,sooner or later. It's a chance to learn and improve,not a crime (: Is it good to have very high expectations? Not only that,but it will be harder to start tasks related to it. With expectations too high,the work will seem too hard to start as well. And this causes a domino effect where you get burnt out,act more harsh (believing it gives you extra motivation),and your self-esteem gradually dies ("why can't I ever do anything well?!? I'm a failure...") ——— But It's not your fault; perfectionism and being mean to yourself can be caused by many factors that you cannot control. Such as teachers or parents who were very critical,and you internalized their words as a child. Changing is hard,especially when the circumstances around you add pressure and tell you otherwise. It requires a lot of strength. But you're enough just the way you are. I'm proud of you if you survived such mindset and was in that 40%,or if you always were kind to yourself,which likely made you achieve more things. Questions to ask yourself to not be too self-critical or set unhealthy standards: 1. Do your plans feel okay and possible for you,even to start today? Do you think you'll feel okay and not overwhelmed from them? 2. Think about 3 things that matter to you (examples: dear people,hobbies,sports) and say how they will change permanently if you fail. Will you lose everything,or have dramatic irreversible changes in your life? 3. Will you gain anything good,even just experience or finding a crazy opportunity (example: helping other people understand how to survive that challenge and turning it into your strenght) from failing? Sources/If you want know more about this: Curran & Hill (2019)—American Psychological Association Neff, K.D. (2003)—Self-Compassion: An Alternative Conceptualization of a Healthy Attitude Toward Oneself Yerkes-Dodson Law. Anxiety and Performance Thank you so much for reading!! I hope this helped. Have a wonderful day :D🍀 (and remember: you're enough just the way you are. I'm proud of you!!)

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Feedback & Reviews

Edna is super sweet, listens without judgement💗 and really calmed me down a bit by probing for more with questions. I genuinely enjoyed sharing my concerns while receiving support and empathy from her.

Really understanding, helpful and supporting! ‹3

There are no words that can describe how awesome of a listener she is, She is absolutely unique in everything she does. Never felt so seen and genuinely understood

Fantastic awesome so nice

Great listener, really helpful conversation!

Very cheerful and calm, a good listener and would turn anyting negative u think about yourself to an important skill. She was awesome I slept automatically after I talked with her

Very supportive, listens carefully and amazing overall

Supportive and never judgmental

Really good listener

nice