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Elizabethblanco1111
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PathStep 44 Compassion hearts40 Forum posts3 Forum upvotes8 Current upvotes8 Age GroupAdult Last activeApril, 2023 Member sinceDecember 9, 2021
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Relationship Stress / by Elizabethblanco1111
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October 2nd, 2022
...See more I was in a very toxic relationship about 5 months ago. And recently started talking to this guy. He was very affectionate with me in the beginning and as time went on and he opened up more about certain thing I found out he was diagnosed with anxiety and depression. He told me some days he wants a relationship and other days he doesnt. And I could feel some distance he put between us, if that makes sense? Anyways we Both have narcissistic parents who have been cheating on their partner and we also both have been cheated on. He told me that he’s afraid after all the heartbreaks he’s been through. I like him a lot but it scares me too because I don’t want to get my heart broken either. I think I kind of screwed up though recently when I got really scared and told him I don’t want to talk anymore. Because We went on a date and he did communicate he wasn’t feeling well. But my anxiety was worried the whole time because he wasn’t talking or being affectionate. But in all honesty I do want to talk to him. He called me after a couple of days and we started to talk again. I can feel he put me a mile away from him but at the same time wants to talk to me. I don’t know what to do to fix things. please let me know your thoughts.
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Relationship Stress / by Elizabethblanco1111
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October 21st, 2023
...See more i always get anxious in relationships. I always feel like their out to get me, to hurt me. Like my mom hurt me. She cheated on my dad and still hasn’t admitted to it. She’s still a narcissist and it’s caused great pain to my entire family. I’ve seen the effects it can cause in people, the emotional damage. I blame my self a lot of the time. I never know when someone is treating me how I’m supposed to be treated. I give way too many chances because I always want to please. God please keep giving me the strength and guiding me where I’m supposed to be. If this person is for me, help me see that. Help me be patient and to open my heart fully.
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