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EroclMTB
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major anxiety
Anxiety Support / by EroclMTB
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 February 25th, 2015
...See more Right now I am dealing with my girlfriend of only 2 and half months.  Things were good for awhile as they usually are in the beginning.  About 2 weeks ago she made a comment " if you hurt me I will punch throat you. emjoi sumbals of fist, hammer, gun"   It through me back and scared me.  I did confront her about it and she told me she was kind of kidding at first.  As I couldn't get over it, she told me she was really kidding and asked if I thought she would really do that. I said I don't know.  Now that , that is out of the way ( although i still have thoughts about it)  Now it is her neediness that is starting to effect me,  I am not so sure I can meet her needs.  I spent the whole day Sunday fixing her tub and installed a new hot water heater and then saw her sunday night, and again monday night doing errands when she was getting ready to leave, apparently I wasn't giving her kisses she liked and telling her " love ya" instead of " I love you"   We took about half hour before she actually left.   It gives me anxiety to tell her how I feel anymore, which I know isn't safe nor the right thing to do.  I just feel like I am stuck lately.    I know my issues are expressing how I feel and confritations at times.  I was getting better till the last ex closed up on me when I tried to talk to her about things.  Now i am afraid again and afraid of hurting her.  I am scared and so anxious about it all.
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