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I can't and I don't wanna forgive him
Relationship Stress / by Faeria
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 December 30th, 2016
...See more I've been going out with this guy since the end of September. My main motivation from the start was to help him on his depression and anger issues, but I didn't feel love until a month later. He has lied compulsively about both trivial and important things. For example, he was theorically roleplaying with a girl, but it turned out to be a real relationship (a long distance one, though). When I discovered it, I was more hurt about the fact that he couldn't tell me, and it made me try to be more comprehensive so he wouldn't lie to me anymore. I was wrong though. Days later I contacted her through his phone and said I was his real girlfriend, and she was really hurt but thanked me. The next day I could see that my bf was hiding something. I eventually discovered by just looking at his reactions that he told her I wasn't his real girlfriend, just a second personality he created to not feel lonely. I wasn't shocked at that moment, I expected it. One time he lied about having been to the hospital due to taking too many pills. I instantly knew therr was something fishy, so I aske his friend and he said they were playing football(soccer) outside. My boyfriend then admitted that he just wanted my attention, which I've always given to him. Much later I found out he was talking to two other girls. He said to them I was his cousin and you can guess the rest. They live very far away too though, so I'm sure it was just chatting. I know he loves me. I'm sure he does but... Maybe not in a healthy way. His reason for loving me is that I was able to help him a lot, but if I didn't, I'm sure it wouldn't be the same. Every time I've discovered a lie, he cries on my shoulder like a river. He's changed now that he realized he is losing me; he lets me look through his phone and he makes an effort to not lie. I've already built a wall, though. I trust him but at the same time I don't. I don't want to love him nor forgive him. But I don't know how to break up, he's kind of a victimist and always says he can't live without me, literally. I feel manipulated and weak.
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