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Fluffycloudd
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PathStep 3 Compassion hearts86 Forum posts14 Forum upvotes18 Current upvotes18 Age GroupAdult Last activeOctober, 2026 Member sinceAugust 24, 2020
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Just an introvert and expert overthinker.

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Never been in a relationship before
Relationship Stress / by Fluffycloudd
Last post
 February 16th
...See more Hey…just wondering if anyone else has never been in a relationship before? You know, not single by choice but single bcs of no choice :) I never been asked out, flirted with, no any kind of romantic interactions from a guy. It sucks when everyone around me get in and out of relationships, some are married, engaged, or at least in the talking stage with someone and you have no romance in life to update. The feeling of unloved, wondering what is wrong with me? Am I ugly? Is my personality bad? Shall I blame it on the star or the fate? I honestly don’t know. And what’s worse? I want to be in a relationship, but it’s just not for me. And please don’t say “it will come when you least expect or not looking for it” or “ love yourself first” or any of those toxic positivity anymore, so tired of it. I am really upset with my fate, or am I destined to be alone?
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Relationship Stress / by Fluffycloudd
Last post
 May 7th, 2023
...See more So I met this guy at my workplace, I like him first but he still doesn’t know about my feeling yet until now. We worked on two projects together and then we kept chatting (not everyday). Every time I get his messages, my whole mood lighten up and I enjoy texting with him and I assume he does too because we texted for hours even though he doesn’t like texting. Some of the conversations are started by me and sometimes initiated by him. There is nothing flirty in the conversation but I can clearly see he treats me differently from other co-workers. however, recently he never texted me and even when I texted him first, he always cut the conversation short. I am not sure why or what’s going on as I have no rights to ask because there is nothing going on between us. Or maybe he finds another co-worker,who he is working with more interesting. I just hope he likes me the same way I like him.
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