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FoxesareCool
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Am i controlling for setting a rule?
Relationship Stress / by FoxesareCool
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 September 23rd, 2025
...See more So im not sure where to really start with this outside of just jumping straight in the details My partner and i have been arguing over for days about him thinking about other girls sexually including some of our friends. Of course he's racked with guilt and such so he wants me to set a big ground rule of where he cant think or talk about those fantasies and i just feel like its wrong to set a rule like that in the first place Specially since he keeps treating himself like hes a slave or something telling me hes not allowed to thing do or say anything agreeing when i ask if im controlling him It does nothing but makes me feel awful and i dont know what to do about it i love this guy and he's honestly amazing i want to help him from all the guilt how can i?
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My long distance relationship is tough
Relationship Stress / by FoxesareCool
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 March 1st, 2025
...See more My partner and i have been together for about 4 years now and so far ive been nothing happy with them in my life, its just sometimes he doesn't want to open up about anything he shuts down and im left wondering how i can help him and salvage the time we have together. Ive tried being the im always there for you type of person, and i dont want to force anything out of their mouth but its really hard when i see them struggling and all i can do most of the time is watch, i feel unhelpful, even useless at times due to it but idk I know i cant fix everything but i just want to help make him feel atleast a little better, but it also feels like no matter how much i try nothing works
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Mutual friend doesn't like me
Friendship Support / by FoxesareCool
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 October 1st, 2024
...See more My boyfriend and I have a mutual friend and she hangsout and talks to him like normal but anytime I reach out I either get silence or some other form of distant chatter. We used to all be pretty close net but now it just seems all she cares about is chatting to my BF, now obviously im okay with them hanging out and such i trust my BF but it really rubbed me the wrong way when she knows im around too and only really wants to talk to him. I personally have zero clue to how I may have upset her even my boyfriend is perplexed on the whole thing, saying that she doesn't even ask about me anymore. I'm just asking for advice on what you would do? I do miss the times when we all used to be close but since she's been acting all weird, I really don't think thats possible now.
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I don't know what's wrong with me
General Support / by FoxesareCool
Last post
 March 8th, 2023
...See more I don't know where to really start, I guess I want to know from someone else what they think. Sorry for the lives story. I'm 25 years old and still living with my dad now it seems he really has no problem with it but his girlfriend doesn't like it at all. I'm sitting pretty with free rent and everything inbetween. Now my dad never seemed to care about anything I do it seemed whether it was school or getting a real job, I never got pushed by him while he bascially neglected me throughout my childhood, yeah he provided a roof over my head and food. But other than that my dad simply never cared, he didn't even care or believe that I was infact blind in one eye. He'd let me play video games over going to school he let me do just whatever I wanted. That was cool in the moment but honestly I could've used a good dad. But back to the point of why I'm writing this, I've been trying to get my life back on track looking into college and I'm in the process of getting my ged all thanks to my Mom and boyfriend's help and pushing. I just wish everyone I currently live with felt that way too, pushed me or helped me in the ways I need other than money. Instead it feels like they walk all over me, my dads girlfriend telling me to clean this or deep clean this room... reminding me that I don't have a job therefore you should clean the whole house type of stuff. Most of the time I don't mind cleaning cus yeah it mostly gets everyone off my back for the day. But the thing is no one appreciates it at all. They all still call me names say snide stuff about me sorta bully me, which those actions in return make me less motivated when cleaning causing me to half-*** it. I just feel like they all sorta look at me like a slave at times and thats it, I either get yelled by his girlfriend or my dad himself. My dad even making me work with him then constantly telling me he's going to pay me yet that money never comes. It just all feels like everyone in this house just doesn't care what I do with my life as long as I'm under them. Idk why I really made this I think it was just for me to clear my thoughts on everything, you can respond if you want but really I just don't know if I'm in the wrong for feeling untreated, yeah you don't know the full story but why do I feel so conflicted on my feelings.
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