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HereButNotThereYet
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Isolated by my own fear and now completely alone
35 & Over Community / by HereButNotThereYet
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 February 2nd, 2021
...See more Hello. I’m a 36 year old mom. I’ve been married twice. Divorced twice. I kept my circle small. In fact I don’t have a single friend in my phone or personal contacts to talk to. My relationship is struggling beyond belief, my parents and I had a falling out in October. My only brother isolated himself from our family over 6 years ago. I’m alone, empty. Struggling.
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Losing my soulmate
Relationship Stress / by HereButNotThereYet
Last post
 January 18th, 2021
...See more Hello. I’m Jen. I’ve been here it’s who I’d call my best friend for the last year and a half. Long story short, we reunited after 9 years when he walked out of my life for no given reason when we attempted to date before. He found me 9 years later and here we are. Our past relationships with other have made things hard for us. He has a hard time with commitment and we both struggle with trust. So many things have hurt our relationship, moving, Covid, families (his adult daughters and my 5 live at home children), loss of income, and now to top it off I’m pregnant. We have pushed each other to our max. I don’t feel like a priority or loved like I once did and he is having a hard time making any further commitments to me. This last week we were forced to get a new home and he opted not to move with me. We haven’t spent more than 24 hours apart and now it’s been over a week. This weekend he took off someplace and drove to clear his head. I’m losing my mind. I don’t know what he wants or how he feels about me let alone if he still wants me in his life. I’m driving myself crazy. I’ve asked for clarification and I get nothing. I’m worried, already depressed with many other things going on, and I really don’t want to lose my best friend.
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