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HoaMatTroi
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Number of ratings11 Number of reviews7 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Vietnamese Listener sinceMay 21, 2026 Activewithin a week GenderMale PathStep 155 People helped153 Chats382 Group support chats2 Listener group chats2 Forum posts95 Forum upvotes294
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Hello there!

I'm Chris.

I choose to be a listener to help you ease the weights of life. Deep empathy, unconditional listening, and absolute privacy for your stories.

If the world out there feels too overwhelming, just drop me a message.

Best regards,

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Signs that you possess healing energy
Mindfulness Center / by HoaMatTroi
Last post
 Thursday
...See more 🌀 Animals won’t run away when they see you; they aren’t afraid of you. You can even play around with them. 🌀 Children are very fond of you and want to play with you. In particular, children under the age of one will often gaze at you intently—without even blinking—and smile at you when they see you. 🌀 Friends, loved ones, and even strangers turn to you to share their stories and their deepest, most private thoughts. 🌀 When you arrived at a store, there were very few customers at first, but later on, a large number of customers poured in. 🌀 Wherever you happen to be, the atmosphere in that space becomes pleasant and welcoming. 🌀 You easily attract the attention of others, even when dressed simply and possessing an ordinary appearance. 🌀 You have a deep love for nature. You regard nature as your closest friend—a place where you feel most at ease and comfortable.
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10/10/2026
Positivity & Gratitude / by HoaMatTroi
Last post
 October 11th
...See more Even if the journey is hard and filled with difficulties, remember to allow yourself to enjoy it and open your heart to whatever comes your way - both favourable and unfavourable. Only then, will you truly feel at ease and happy with your life.
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Mother's love
Positivity & Gratitude / by HoaMatTroi
Last post
 October 8th
...See more "A stray cat has recently started showing up at my house. It knows that every time I have a meal, it will show up, hide behind the well, and wait for me to finish eating to give it something." "Since I'm a cat and dog lover, of course I feed it." "And this has become a habit—the cat shows up right on time whenever I eat. I wondered how it could know the exact time like that when it doesn't wear a watch like I do!" "And then, I noticed that it only eats a few bites and carries the rest away somewhere into the bamboo thicket behind the house. I secretly followed it and found out that it has kittens!" "It was so touching! I thought, even though it's just an animal, it still has a mother's instinct to care for and raise her babies." "So, I ended up taking in and adopting both the mother and her little ones."
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Be completely in the now
General Support / by HoaMatTroi
Last post
 October 8th
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Learning Unconditional Presence (Deep Listening Without Quick Judgment) from Doraemon
General Support / by HoaMatTroi
Last post
 July 28th
...See more When Nobita comes running home crying about another failure, Doraemon's first instinct isn't to push him away or tell him to "suck it up", Doraemon offers a non-judgmental space to vent. Adult lesson: in relationship and workplace dynamics, we often rush to fix people or critique their feelings. Doraemon reminds us that simply holding space and listening attentively is often the most therapeutic response to someone in distress.
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When you feel like giving up
General Support / by HoaMatTroi
Last post
 July 23rd
...See more When you fall into a state of feeling discouraged, wanting to do absolutely nothing, and just feeling like giving up on everything, know that what you are experiencing is a deeply human feeling. No matter how strong or grounded we are, there are moments when we feel completely depleted, loose our sense of direction, and simply want to let go of everything. When your inner fire temporarily goes out, forcing yourself to "be positive" or "keep pushing" can sometimes just leave you more exhausted. Instead, try approaching this state with gentler attitude toward yourself.
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Slow down
General Support / by HoaMatTroi
Last post
 July 13th
...See more Vienna - Song lyrics by Billy Joel Slow down, you're doing fine You can't be everything you wanna be before your time Although it's so romantic on the borderline tonight, tonight Too bad, but it's the life you lead You're so ahead of yourself, that you forgot what you need Though you can see when you're wrong You know you can't always see when you're right You're right You've got your passion, you've got your pride But don't you know that only fools are satisfied? Dream on, but don't imagine they'll all come true, ooh When will you realize Vienna waits for you?
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Give yourself permission to break down, what's the harm?
Mindfulness Center / by HoaMatTroi
Last post
 August 22nd
...See more What do you do when you fall into a state of uncertainty, vagueness, anxiety, and insecurity? Clearly, it is the result of a long process of accumulation. You feel exhausted from trying to stay optimistic, working hard, and constantly reminding yourself of good and meaningful things. You expect a positive outcome to come your way, but it hasn’t arrived yet. Fatigue sets in, and you just want to give up, with no desire to keep going. You find yourself sinking into an inescapable vortex of anxiety. At times like this, you don't need to force yourself to do anything. Don't try to force positive thoughts about yourself and everything around you. Just let yourself sink into that negative spiral. However, always remain aware that you are in that state. Observe your emotional storms closely, and always be conscious of where you stand in the situation. This will prevent you from being swallowed whole by that powerful negative vortex. Protect yourself by: * Staying in a safe space or in nature, where healing energy flows. This will help raise your high-energy frequency against the wave of negative energy created by your own mind. * Moving your body, such as walking or jogging, which is also a way to activate energy and combat the sluggishness of both body and mind. * If you have a religious faith, go to a temple, church, or shrine, sit there in silence, or talk to the higher power that protects you. Pour your heart out. Or, you can pray. Everyone has to go through these difficult phases a few times in life. Always keep faith in yourself and try to overcome it.
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