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HopieRemi |
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Welcome to my profile! I have been a Listener since June 2016. It has been a pleasure being able to support as many individuals as I have on this website. If you have the chance to get into a conversation with me, I try to establish time boundaries and personal boundaries. Our chats will always be based on what you want to talk about, excluding topics of sex, active suicidal ideation, or homicidal ideas. Due to site limitations, if you are in danger to yourself or others, I cannot continue to talk to you but I can link you to the proper resource.

I am in my late twenties and I work long 12 hour shifts so my availability may be limited. I am also in the Masters program for LMHC. Due to my limited availabilities, I am not able to have scheduled conversations nor be immediately available to those who need my support. I recommend if you need immediate replies or have an emergent issue, to discover a listener who is online by utilizing our search system.

By the way, my favorite color is Blue. What's yours?
Number of Ratings: 336
Number of Reviews: 159
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Spanish
Listener Since Jun 23, 2016
Last Active in last week
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 860
Cheers 870,655
People Helped 347
Chats 4,569
Group Support Chats 3,957
Listener Group Chats 7,145
Forum Posts 5,792
Forum Upvotes 7,587
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Feedback & Reviews
Great listener, great chat as always.
The bestest listener ever! Helped me with my anxiety by teaching me counting exercises
Hopie is a wonderful Listener, which we all need during these trying times.
Highly recommend. Good active listening skills and one of the more dedicated Listeners on this site.
Live her she's very kind
fantastic person
thank you so much, you were very attentive and a very good sounding board.
Remi is awesome and very supportive. A great listener!
Very very good friend
They are very helpful and ask the correct questions without it seeming too invading. I’m glad to have met them.
Really great listener and responds on time
Really listened and understood what I was saying, thank you ❤️ Helped to get some of the crazy out
This person really understands me and is helping me get by 10/10 best person i've met so far.
Amazing active listening skills, relatable, response time on point, etc. Total recommend.
very nice person and listened to everything i had to say!
She's super nice!
Cool guy....
She was so kind and compassionate to me, and helped me through my anxiety and think straight. She really cared about listening to me and helping me, and I'm so thankful for talking me through all that.
Great person
very kind and genuine
Beyond 5 stars! Very warm, engaging and helpful. Patient and positive!
Amazing listener
was helpful
Best listner and person on cups 💯
Great talking with her, was very patie t and understanding. Would highly recommend.
I enjoy the conversations and what I get from reviewing my projects and progress.
Totally professional, made me feel heard. Very empathetic. One of my favorite listeners.
She's a fabulous listener. Like talking to a close a friend; very easy to talk to and open up to. Thank-you!
Very kind!
Thank you Em! It is so nice to speak with you. I feel less isolated, more connected, and understood by you. And speaking with you reminds me that there are people being kind, because you've been kind when you speak with me. Take care ♥
Best listener and mod of all time.
Great listener!!!
She is just amazing!
Thanks Em! I really needed to talk about now, this week, my past, all the stuff in my mind. And you were again amazing, you were very professional in the chat and you showed your huge heart. Thank you ❤❤❤
Very helpful as always (: Makes you think how can one person have such potential for genuine care. I needed a place to vent and sort out my mind, at least a bit, and she has provided me that opportunity. Thank you again.
Very attentive and timely with responses!
Awesome listener!
Great listening skills that help you explore things on a deeper level.
Really supportive. Thank you for your time, was much apprecciated :)
Really Great Listener!!!
Very grateful for such a very attentive listener!
Amazing listener!!!
Super kind and caring. I was feeling insecure about something, and depressed about something else, and she helped me with both. Now I feel more comforted and calmer. Thank you Em, you're really generous and lovely.
good listener
I love her, she is such a nice person. So kind and generous and such a careful listener. Thank you Em
Very helpful!
The best listener I've ever talked to
Just perfect
Really great person advices me what to do and made feel better
They are really clear, empathetic, and understanding
She has given me the time to type up my feelings. Was very generous with rescheduling our normal time and never judges.
Very kind and patient. Really wants to be there for you. Thank you Em!
very kind and understanding
She understood me and was super kind. She really helped me
She is very great
Wonderful listener, and she really cares. Thank you Em! You helped me more than some mental health professionals. Thank you so much!
Omg. You're freaking amazing em! Thank you so much for being here. When I felt I had no one to talk to, you were there, and I can't thank you enough. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
Really makes me feel heard and understood. Not like I'm talking to a complete stranger at all, more like talking to my best friend. I absolutely love her! She is genuine and caring and clearly loves what she does.
Excellent listener.
Really great
A very excellent listener
They are the best listener ever. I'm so glad I found them. Thank you.
Such a great listener! Thank you for taking the time to listen to the details and for understanding how I feel. I am feeling much better after sharing with you. Thank you!
Best listern ever
You are amazing and fantastic. You brought me out of the dark and showed me a ray of light. Thank you so much.
This is the first person that I found that actually cared to try and help me. Thank you so much for all of the things that you've done to help me.
She was amazing. I never felt judged or like she didn't care or wasn't listening.
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Questions Answered
No one cares about me, why does 7 Cups of Tea care?
July 5th, 2016 7:41am
At what point should I seek help for how I feel?
July 5th, 2016 7:44am
How can I get help for depression and tell those I know that I have it if I'm anxious about making them worry?
July 5th, 2016 8:21am
How do I know if I'm depressed or just lazy or unmotivated?
July 10th, 2016 8:46am
How do you learn to love yourself when you're depressed?
July 5th, 2016 8:06am
Why do I forget all the positive things of my life and my achievements when I am depressed?
July 11th, 2016 11:56pm
How can I help people with cancer?
July 5th, 2016 7:38am
What makes a person sad?
July 5th, 2016 7:51am
How to forgive yourself for cheating or lying?
July 10th, 2016 8:50am
What to say to someone who is depressed?
July 9th, 2016 9:18pm
How can I tell my parents that I think I'm depressed?
June 30th, 2016 4:09am
Do I have the right to feel depressed even if I'm privileged?
July 3rd, 2016 10:01pm
What should I do if I am feeling suicidal, but don't want to tell anyone?
July 3rd, 2016 8:54pm
Is it ok to always depend on this site when you feel down?
July 3rd, 2016 10:03pm
How do I help explain to a parent that what I feel is valid after they reacted badly?
July 9th, 2016 11:12am
Is it normal to not want to get better?
July 10th, 2016 8:42am
Why am I so emotional right now?
July 16th, 2016 9:47am
What if nothing makes me feel happy anymore?
July 18th, 2016 9:07am
What can I do when my emotions are overwhelming?
August 9th, 2016 9:25am
How do I stop thinking about death?
July 31st, 2016 5:40am
How to be good to yourself and to others?
July 10th, 2016 9:23pm
What are triggers and how do I know if I have one?
July 30th, 2016 3:23am
How do I keep myself from overreacting?
July 10th, 2016 8:43am
Why do I get so emotional over nothing?
July 10th, 2016 9:15pm
What makes a person emotionally strong?
July 30th, 2016 3:22am
I can't stop crying for days on end. What do I do?
July 16th, 2016 9:42am
Am I depressed or just sensitive?
August 24th, 2016 8:09pm
I find myself thinking of people as useless and tedious. What's wrong with me?
August 24th, 2016 8:04pm
How do you turn things around when you feel like you're overwhelmed and have too much on your plate?
July 10th, 2016 8:57am
What does a bully get out of bullying people?
July 5th, 2016 7:52am
Is it my fault I am being bullied?
July 12th, 2016 6:27am
I'm being bullied at work, what should I do?
July 21st, 2016 9:51am
What do you think the best way I'd to get over 'friends' picking on you everyday at school?
July 5th, 2016 3:18am
How do respond to a bully when I know that the bully himself is struggling?
August 15th, 2016 6:00am
Why do the people bully me when I always helped them?
July 12th, 2016 8:27pm
Why can't I seem to get past the words they told me, even years later?
July 5th, 2016 8:02am
How do you block out negative comments from strangers, whether they're on the street or online?
August 9th, 2016 9:21am
I don't like watching bullying happen around me, but how do I stop it without being bullied myself?
August 15th, 2016 5:59am
How do I prevent myself from being bullied by others?
July 5th, 2016 3:17am
Why do people feel the need to demean others to feel better about themselves?
July 11th, 2016 6:57pm
Why bullies tend to become more aggressive when you show them you just want peace?
August 9th, 2016 9:23am
How can i not become jaded and bitter? How do you turn the other cheek?
July 25th, 2016 9:21pm
Is it normal for me to be silent when I get verbally abused?
July 18th, 2016 9:10am
How can I say something back without seeming desperate or offending someone else?
August 2nd, 2016 9:56am
Why can't people just be nice?
June 27th, 2016 9:29pm
Is it normal for people to feel bullied but technically not be? Who decides what bullying really is?
August 15th, 2016 1:44am
Why can't I be like the others?
August 9th, 2016 9:20am
How to deal with people that are bad mouthing me?
July 10th, 2016 8:39am
My friend is always negative towards me. What do I do?
July 10th, 2016 8:10am
Everyone in school thinks I am bitter. How can I change their minds?
December 9th, 2016 1:23am
What is something that I can remember while having a panic attack that can help me calm down?
July 5th, 2016 8:04am
How can I bring myself down once I have started to have a Panic Attack?
July 26th, 2016 1:02am
How can I try to remember to breathe and try to remain calm?
March 21st, 2017 4:37pm
How to forget my one-sided love?
July 10th, 2016 9:25pm
What types of medications exist for anxiety?
August 2nd, 2016 9:58am
How do I manage my anxiety so that it doesn't hinder my work and my career?
July 5th, 2016 7:56am
What's the best way to get over rejection from schools?
August 2nd, 2016 9:57am
Who can get anxiety?
August 8th, 2016 5:13pm
Why do I panic over things that I already know the answer to ?
March 21st, 2017 4:22pm
What's the best way to not get anxious when meeting new people?
July 5th, 2016 7:46am
How do I stop thinking that I look different than other and everyone is staring at me?
July 5th, 2016 3:19am
Is me not being able to attend this event a sign that I'm a weak person?
July 12th, 2016 8:28pm
How do I live in the moment?
July 3rd, 2016 9:33pm
How can I talk to people normally?
August 27th, 2016 8:19pm
Why can't I figure out what to do with my life?
June 28th, 2016 4:36am
Why will my brain never slow down?
July 14th, 2016 9:59am
The Facebook "Seen" message gives me a lot of anxiety! When I see that the person has "seen" the message, but does not reply, I start thinking about all the possible reasons why they would 'ignore' me... Does anyone else feel this? If so, how do you cope?
December 9th, 2016 1:26am
How should I overcome test anxiety?
July 26th, 2016 1:02am
What's the best way to support someone who can't think right thanks to their anxiety?
July 5th, 2016 7:43am
Is it normal to have trouble breathing during a panic attack?
July 25th, 2016 9:18pm
What triggers random anxiety and panic attacks when nothing is going on?
December 9th, 2016 1:27am
Why is it that everyone else seems to handle things so easily, but I have the hardest time with the simplest stuff sometimes?
July 18th, 2016 9:12am
How can I learn my triggers?
August 15th, 2016 6:00am
How to stop thinking about a guy who dumped you or is bad for you?
July 16th, 2016 9:40am
Why am I so nervous around my boyfriend?
July 10th, 2016 8:45am
Why am I so nervous around my girlfriend?
June 30th, 2016 4:00am
Why am I so nervous for no reason?
July 30th, 2016 9:18pm
Why do I always think my girlfriend is cheating?
August 7th, 2016 10:19pm
How frequent are anxiety attacks usually?
July 3rd, 2016 10:01pm
How can I convince myself that my friends don't hate me? I have this irrational fear that they actually hate me.
July 7th, 2016 7:10am
How do I overcome the fear of cashiers?
July 30th, 2016 9:16pm
Is it hard to think critically about something you love?
July 15th, 2016 9:39am
I feel extremely sick whenever I leave my house, what can I do?
July 31st, 2016 7:02am
How can I get what I need from my doctor?
July 16th, 2016 7:25pm
What are alternative ways besides medication to deal with the physical symptoms of anxiety?
July 16th, 2016 9:46am
How do I get over feeling that everyone is going to leave me?
August 7th, 2016 3:51am
How can I overcome anxiety if I can't talk to a therapist or my own doctor?
August 11th, 2016 10:07am
Is staying in the closet forever a bad thing?
August 15th, 2016 1:43am
Is it wrong to be gay?
July 19th, 2016 6:33am
What are the differences between pansexual and bisexual?
August 9th, 2016 9:24am
How can I explain homosexuality to my parents?
August 21st, 2016 11:57am
How do I stop thinking about how other people are judging me?
July 25th, 2016 9:18pm
Why am I attracted to people of the same gender?
July 26th, 2016 8:28am
What does it mean to be Queer?
August 24th, 2016 8:07pm
What do I say to people that ask about my scars without making them uncomfortable?
January 13th, 2017 3:41am
Does using acid to burn yourself count as self-harm?
July 2nd, 2016 5:10am
Why can't I sleep at night?
July 9th, 2016 11:14am
What does it mean when your dreams feel so real?
July 17th, 2016 9:18pm
Flashbacks from my past have impacted my sleeping patterns. What can I do to help myself ?
July 11th, 2016 6:56pm
How do I stop over thinking at night?
July 10th, 2016 9:25pm
How much sleep should I get daily?
July 1st, 2016 10:30am
At what point does sleep deprivation become a problem?
July 10th, 2016 8:38am
I broke off my engagement. I don't even know what to do now. Where do I go from here?
June 2nd, 2020 7:01pm
How long does it take to get over someone?
July 5th, 2016 8:05am
How can you unlove someone?
July 5th, 2016 7:49am
What's the best way to get over someone who cheated on you?
July 5th, 2016 7:37am
Am i ready to move on?
July 5th, 2016 3:11am
How do i start talking to a guy I like?
July 5th, 2016 3:15am
Why do I freak out in relationships so easily?
July 7th, 2016 7:03am
Why do I always think about him or her?
July 7th, 2016 7:05am
I cheated on my boyfriend but I love him. How do I fix it?
July 3rd, 2016 8:56pm
Why is he ignoring me after breakup?
July 8th, 2016 8:21am
is it a bad thing to stay in love with someone who left you?
July 7th, 2016 7:08am
How do I know if I'm in a toxic relationship?
July 7th, 2016 7:04am
How can I tell if someone is lying to me about their drug use?
March 23rd, 2017 8:39pm
My parents don't listen to me, what should I do?
August 5th, 2016 10:25pm
Whenever I go home, my parents treat me like a teenager again - how can I stop this from happening?
March 23rd, 2017 5:47am
How can I change how my family feels about me? I'm treated like the black sheep.
July 3rd, 2016 8:55pm
How can I deal with family stress?
July 5th, 2016 3:13am
What's the best way of dealing with your parents getting a divorce?
July 11th, 2016 6:55pm
How do I get along better with my mother ?
July 11th, 2016 11:57pm
When do i get to stop making everyone else happy?
August 24th, 2016 8:06pm
My parents have unrealistic expectations of me. They put so much pressure on me to do well in school that it's almost impossible for me to succeed and I am sure to disappoint them. Its a lot of stress for me.
July 5th, 2016 7:51am
I'm cheating on my boyfriend or girlfriend. Am I a bad person?
July 5th, 2016 7:35am
How can I tell my mother in law to back off?
July 10th, 2016 8:47am
How can I tell if my mother has dementia?
July 7th, 2016 7:01am
How can I tell if my mother in law likes me?
July 3rd, 2016 8:58pm
My father is always angry - what should I do?
July 11th, 2016 11:57pm
How to stop hating your mother?
March 21st, 2017 4:37pm
How to stop hating your mother in law?
July 15th, 2016 9:40am
How to stop hating your little brother?
July 15th, 2016 9:38am
How do I deal with a religious family as an atheist?
July 9th, 2016 11:17am
My dad likes to touch me. Is this sexual abuse?
July 7th, 2016 7:07am
How do I live with a mentally-ill parent?
July 10th, 2016 9:22pm
What age is too young to leave home?
July 10th, 2016 8:37am
How do I tell my parents I don't want to go to church?
July 16th, 2016 9:41am
What do I do if my father thinks I hate him even after I told him I don't?
July 10th, 2016 9:26pm
How can I make my family understand that I'm not seeking attention and just trying to get the help I need?
July 10th, 2016 9:27pm
How to connect a person online with a therapist?
July 10th, 2016 8:40am
How do I deal with the death of a family member?
July 12th, 2016 8:25pm
I've not been able to cry for a very long time, and I really need to. Is there a method to induce crying and letting it all out ?
July 16th, 2016 9:42am
After you lose your best friend, how do you know when grieving them starts?
July 17th, 2016 8:59pm
How not to sound weird when talking to authority?
July 5th, 2016 7:36am
Sometimes I hear a voice in my head that tells me negative things like everyone hates me or I should kill myself. What should I do?
August 5th, 2016 10:26pm
Why doesn't taking care of myself come naturally to me?
July 31st, 2016 5:41am
I'm studying in a college right now and am in a group. However I notice I'm hardly considered as a part of the group. It kinda hurts, any suggestions on how I can handle this or anything I can do?
March 21st, 2017 4:12pm
How do I explain to others that it's not their concern if I choose not to have sex?
March 21st, 2017 4:23pm
How can I deal with someone that is acting like a 'diva'?
July 7th, 2016 6:57am
How do I know if I'm in love?
August 24th, 2016 8:08pm
Why do I have a gut-wrenching feeling down my stomach after a friend told me something I disagree with, not physically, but emotionally?
July 18th, 2016 9:09am
How do you tell your friend that you disagree with them without hurting their feelings?
August 7th, 2016 10:21pm