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Ivy229
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Number of ratings19 Number of reviews15 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceMar 8, 2021 Last activein last 6 months GenderFemale PathStep 131 People helped66 Chats177 Group support chats60 Listener group chats17 Forum posts373 Forum upvotes298
Bio

*I AM OPEN AND LOOKING FOR MEMBERS WHO ARE SEEKING A LONG-TERM LISTENER ON A REGULAR BASIS *

About Me:

Full-time university student majoring in Human Services with a concentration in Direct Service and double minor in Psychology and Medical Social Sciences

INFJ (Myers-Briggs Personality Type)

Hobbies: Listening to music, traveling, spending time with loved ones, cooking, learning, volunteering, drawing, the beach, amusement parks

Since a young age I have been very passionate about giving back and helping others. I truly believe one of my biggest purposes in life is to try to do whatever I can in my lifetime to help improve the lives of others and try to leave some sort of lasting positive impression on the world.

Favorite Quotes/Mottos I Live By:   "Just When the Caterpillar Thought the World Was Over, It Became a Butterfly", "Where Words Fail, Music Speaks"-Hans Christian Andersen, "Be the Change You Wish to See in the World"-Mahatma Gandhi


Current Roles @ 7 Cups of Tea:  

-Listening Sharing Circle Host:  Every Saturday & Sunday 3-4PM EST

-Internship Trainee

-Future Group Support Trainee

-Working on requirements to became Adult-Teen Listener, Listener Chatroom Supporter, 7 Cups Internship Academy Mentor...


I feel so blessed for this opportunity to connect with people around the world with whom I have so much in common. I have noticed we are all a bit optimistic, we believe in humanity, we believe in kindness, we believe in a better tomorrow.  


We are all here because we believe that kind word even from a stranger can make a change. And it Can!  

You never know fully what impact you have on another human being! Did you save relationships today? Did you save someone's career? someone's life? health? friendship? We never will know for sure, however, I have certainty that you changed someone's day, someone's life today.  

Today is (05/12/2021 or whatever the date is when you are reading this). It is a unique day. There will be 05/13/2021 / 05/12/2022,2023 etc but never again 05/12/2021😊


And we had the opportunity to live this day, for one reason or anything. Maybe it is so we can tell our grandchildren about this day, maybe today is the day you start feeling better, maybe today is the day you are finally able to accomplish something you couldn't before, maybe today is the day you finally are able to love yourself exactly the way you are, maybe today is the day you feel completely carefree and grounding, maybe today is the day.................😊  

I hope I can help make this unique day better for you, to enjoy this day, to feel loved, supported, heard, understood, and whatever it is you may need to make this day all the more unique and special. The day which will never happen again in the history of humanity

So, I want to thank each one of you for being here, for giving me the opportunity to listen to you, for having the courage to be vulnerable, honest, and giving me an insight into whatever you may be feeling/thinking/experiencing, and ultimately giving me the chance to not only be a part of this unique day in your life but giving me the chance to make someone's day better.

Each chat I get the fortunate opportunity to have whether it is with a member or listener is my chance to be present and listen to your valuable, unique, important, and personal story. Remember you are never alone; you matter and are needed in this world. 



If the circle on my profile picture is red, I am either offline, busy, or not taking chats even if I am on the site. Feel free to leave a message and I will get back to you when I can. If I respond expect responses to be delayed.

If the circle is orange, I'm working on something, or I am in a chatroom. Again, feel free to try me as I likely will be able to respond, but responses will be delayed.

If it's green, I am here and I can take chats. If I have a time limit, I will let you know. If for some reason your first message the response isn't quick, I am probably away from the computer for a moment (though I usually try to switch to yellow) or your chat got buried which sometimes happens randomly. Please give me some time and I will respond as soon as possible.


  * I am open to taking all types of chats as long as they are within the appropriate terms of service according to 7 Cups of Tea. However, I reserve the right to let you know that I might not feel like I am the best person to handle a chat and will do my best to help find a listener who I feel would be better suited. 

* If you plan on being inappropriate and cannot adhere to the terms of service plus do both of us a favor and do not attempt to message me. You will be reported and blocked as I take my roles on 7 Cups serious and do not have any time or desire to engage in these types of situations on here. 

*I have checked off multiple different issues I am comfortable providing support, but the ones that I feel most adapted to handle include: Anxiety, Borderline (BPD), Relationships, Bullying, Chronic Illness/Pain, Depression, Panic Attacks/Disorders, Disability, Domestic Violence, General Mental Health, Loneliness, Managing Emotions, Body Image Issues, and Women's Issues.

*My chats are typically 30-60 minutes long unless agreed to something different

Feedback & Reviews
The most considerate voice
she asks good questions
Really nice listener, kind and helpful. Thank you very much for listening to me today.
Awesome listener
She's a good listener and helpful
She was very informative and listened to every point I made while being grounding, super helpful and would reccomend :)
So sweet and understanding, and she really gets it
very helpful helped me get to sleep feeling better
lovely listener, helped me with suggestions to get my thinking out of a rut
She’s a good person
She's really kind and thoughtful and understanding. Love her
Such a sweet soul, I'm really thankful for her help. She is leading me through my panic attack and is keeping me calm. Thank you dear.
She was pretty helpful and a great listener. It was great to share experiences with her.
Thank you, competent listener
She's a excellent listener
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