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Jlee711
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Pretty sure I lost her.
Relationship Stress / by Jlee711
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 January 9th, 2022
...See more I just found someone I cared for dearly after 3 years of being single. Over Christmas I only got to spend half the day with her which bummed me out so I decided I felt like drinking. Unfortunately I’m an alcoholic, so drinking meant a relapse and me dropping off the map for 2 days. When I finally talked to her again, I told her what had happened and what I am and the last message I received was “I’m sorry too and you’re a really great person. You were the first person I talked to after ending my long term relationship and it was really nice to have met a genuinely kind person like you. I just think it’s best to have some space right now.” I’ve been going crazy hating myself for drinking and screwing up the best thing that’s happened to me in a long time. I don’t think I’ll hear back from her and I’m starting to get really depressed. It’s made me realize just how lonely I have been these past years. I don’t know what to do.
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Is it over?
Relationship Stress / by Jlee711
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 January 7th, 2022
...See more Hello, so I’ve been dating this girl and things were going great. Then on New Years I decided to drink(I’m an alcoholic and this was a relapse) I dropped off the map for 2 days and when I finally responded to her she thought I had been ignoring her. So I told her the truth. Well things got a little rough after that and the last message I received was “I’m sorry too and you’re a really great person. You were the first person I talked to after ending my long term relationship and it was really nice to have met a genuinely kind person like you, I just think it’s best to have some space right now.” That message was from 3 days ago and I know not to bother her, but does it sound like the relationship is over between us?
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