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New here..help with a trigger!
Trauma Support / by Kassy1023
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 December 5th, 2017
...See more ****Trigger Warning**** Please exercise caution if you feel yourself being triggered Backstory: When I was 10, everytime my mom went to the grocery store or some other errand, my dad would take me to his room, if he was home. He would rape me, and force me to perform oral sex if I told him no or to stop or said ow. This lasted a while, 3 years, don't judge, took some time to work up the courage to tell, my mom was not very sympathetic towards anything. Later found out my mom was allowing it and leaving at certain times because my dad supplied her with drugs! Now.... I have a guy friend who I go out with occasionally. We had messed around, touched and kissed, but never had sex up until this evening because he was a virgin. Afterwards we were talking and he says " man you really wanted to have sex" I said "so, you did too, you pulled me into the room and pushed me on the bed". His response " nope. You just raped me". I get that he was joking. But he knows most of my backstory. And who the he'll jokes about RAPE??? I went off on him. Like horribly. I could not contain myself. I was so livid, I dont even want to talk to him or see him. How would you respond or approach him now? edited by dancingRainbow45 explicit wording/content removed to comply with trauma guidelines on posting and trigger warning added
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We cried during sex!!!
Relationship Stress / by Kassy1023
Last post
 December 14th, 2017
...See more I'm a pansexual female. I have a very good friend who is a straight trans woman but has not had surgery yet. I have been attracted to her both sexually and emotionally for a long time. I went to her dorm on campus the other day and she was asleep. I woke her up but she said she was still tired and to just lay down..so I did. Well the bed is small so we were spooning, we starting breathing heavier and I pushed into her and she had an erection. It obviously led to sex, which was very intense and amazing. Afterwards we laid staring at each other. She kissed me and I started crying. i have no idea why!!! She kissed down my chest and I could feel wet spots. When she came back and kissed me again I could see she was crying also..no idea why!!! We kissed for quite few minutes and ended having sex again, but way different. For me it felt more passionate, like I couldn't get enough of her. It was so intense, but not the same intense as the first. Afterwards she just held me and I laid on her chest, yup I cried again! Eventually she went to the bathroom, and I was so horrible and confused that I just left!!! She has made it so clear to me she likes guys, so I'm not sure why it happened in the first place. I'm killing myself over all of this!!! Help a lady out!!!
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