We cried during sex!!!
I'm a pansexual female. I have a very good friend who is a straight trans woman but has not had surgery yet. I have been attracted to her both sexually and emotionally for a long time. I went to her dorm on campus the other day and she was asleep. I woke her up but she said she was still tired and to just lay down..so I did. Well the bed is small so we were spooning, we starting breathing heavier and I pushed into her and she had an erection. It obviously led to sex, which was very intense and amazing. Afterwards we laid staring at each other. She kissed me and I started crying. i have no idea why!!! She kissed down my chest and I could feel wet spots. When she came back and kissed me again I could see she was crying also..no idea why!!! We kissed for quite few minutes and ended having sex again, but way different. For me it felt more passionate, like I couldn't get enough of her. It was so intense, but not the same intense as the first. Afterwards she just held me and I laid on her chest, yup I cried again! Eventually she went to the bathroom, and I was so horrible and confused that I just left!!! She has made it so clear to me she likes guys, so I'm not sure why it happened in the first place.
I'm killing myself over all of this!!! Help a lady out!!!
@Kassy1023
if i cried during sex . . . it would be tears of joy . . . or at least not be tears of sexual confusion because i would be having sex with a friend whom i knew well, even at a sexual level. I can find ways of learning about the current sexuality of a friend, without having sex with her.
then again the chance of my crying is low. even the chance of losing my virginity is lower. but that's not the point . . .
just a note, even though this is a sexual health forum, i felt your post was more explicit than it needed to be, my friend; so i could not read or analyze your post as well as I had wanted to.
@Kassy1023
There are many reasons one might cry durring sex, from relief, to confusion. I don't think you can really know why she was crying without asking her about it. I do not think you should feel bad about this, it doesn't sound like you did anything wrong.
@Kassy1023
Sex is a very powerfull thing not just physically!! So was probably an overload of feelings and came out in tears. Doesn't mean youu guys were sad, you both just felt amazing , happy and loved!