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Relationship Stress / by Kathx
Last post
 April 23rd, 2020
...See more Hello all.. thank you for reading my thread. So basically, I have been in a relationship with a boy for the last year and half, although we live in the same town he is in the Navy and therefore he is rarely "home". We have had our ups and downs during our relationship, he is a very cold person whereas I sometimes need that little bit of reassurance which he couldn't always give. Anyway, we have always worked through our issues and been able to salvage our relationship until last weekend. I'd made a hint to him that I'd like it if he opened up more, he would bring up something like us having a house in the future and as quickly as he started the conversation he would end it. So I just said it would be nice if we could have a few more of those conversations etc. Anyway I woke up to messages from him the next day saying he could never give me the stability, money, house that I deserved and that he wanted me to find someone who deserved me as he wasn't good enough for me. This went backwards and forwards a while, I did the wrong thing of begging but it obviously got me no where. He told me that I should never think it was because of me that he left. And said he wasn't built for relationships. I left him to it and it's been 4 days now since I messaged him last.. should k let him cool off during no contact and see what happens or do I need to move on? I am heartbroken.
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Anxiety Support / by Kathx
Last post
 November 11th, 2019
...See more Hello everyone.. so I suffer with anxiety and depression (was diagnosed in April this year) I have been put in anxiety pills, quite strong dosage, and yet I find myself slipping back to my old ways. I am constantly anxious, feeling so insecure and constantly compare myself to other girls/people in general. I am constantly worrying about what everyone thinks of me and now it
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