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KoalaBearP
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PathStep 12 Compassion hearts8 Forum posts5 Forum upvotes1 Current upvotes1 Age GroupAdult Last activeDecember, 2018 Member sinceOctober 17, 2018
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I caught feelings, he loves someone else
Relationship Stress / by KoalaBearP
Last post
 December 3rd, 2018
...See more I started talking to a friend romantically about a month ago, he persued me and I wasn't sure at first because we both recently got out of a relationship. We went to school together and I knew he liked me then but nothing ever came from it, we decided we were going to hang out and whatever happens happens, I knew logically that this was a bad idea because I knew he wasn't over his ex. Of course after a week or so they decided to work on things and now I realize how hard I started to fall for him, he made me feel special and happy in a way i haven't felt in almost 2 years, I told him I understood because he loves her and I can't be selfish enough to fight that... Now she's pushing him away again, I don't know what's going on. We don't talk so much anymore and it drives me crazy. I feel like a bother, all I want to do is talk to him. I think got friend zoned from someone who persued me and I feel like I'm just a fool for ever letting anything happen. I know he has feelings for me too and doesn't want to hurt me, He's afraid of loosing any chance with me, but yet loves her. I don't want to be out on the back burner. I know that's no good, but I can't convince myself to let it all go, I see him all the time (mutual friend group) Any advice??
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wanting a break up
Relationship Stress / by KoalaBearP
Last post
 November 11th, 2018
...See more So ive been with this guy for 3 years now, we have dealt with a lot of stuff from the beginning and never had a good foundation to start on. He lives with me and my family, and they love him. I love him but im not IN love with him... we have tried for months to fix it but i cant force myself to be happy, and even with him knowing how unhappy i am he refuses to accept it and doesnt want to end it. I feel horrible and like im over reacting but i cant change the way i feel and think its time to move on. Any advice?
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