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Kurogane21
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PathStep 12 Compassion hearts13 Forum posts18 Forum upvotes12 Current upvotes12 Age GroupAdult Last activeJune, 2021 Member sinceDecember 15, 2019
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Toxic Friendship
Relationship Stress / by Kurogane21
Last post
 April 13th, 2020
...See more I won't share my feelings here , but I'll tell you about how I leave my toxic friend both crush too. And I hope , you can do it ! There will always someone deserve you. I will call him , Andrew. Coz , I don't wanna provoke him. At last August 2019. Me and Andrew met at engineering faculties orientation. He knew me first from WhatsApp group. Then , I had new friend at architecture faculty. A lot of them are civil and electrical engineering. First , he was calm and thoughtful from my sight. Coz , his face is mature than other member. Me and Andrew chatted again till we were really close. And , suddenly I had a crush to him. I remembered , first time. While we were fighting. I got bullied first at university. Coz , I left class group chat and Andrew felt angry about it. Second , when I still had feeling to him. At middle term test. I planned to gave him at present. But , when I gave it to him. He was rejecting my present. And , I felt sad. But , I didn't know. If , he had toxic behaviour here. Like , he rarely praise me. Yeah , I know. I'm pleaser. But , he always criticised me. When , I got performed to playing piano at stage. He said " Why u attend it , if you feel insecure to yourself. " , Second I felt one sided relationship from him. He never gives me feedback. When , I closed to him. I always felt tired emotionally and anxiety too. He got good grade. I felt like jealous to him. Not praised him. Second semester , I have attended online class and left him. Finally , I can !
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Flashback Triggers
Anxiety Support / by Kurogane21
Last post
 March 9th, 2020
...See more Uh , I'm back into 7cups again hehehe. Coz , there's something triggering me and I can't share it into my friends personally. I have getting scolded by my parents , after i'm eating dinner. Then , I'm in bedroom to check up my phone. And , I see my close friend WhatsApp status. He writes about his flashback at childhood ( bullied ) indirectly. I know, he doesn't mean to trigger my childhood trauma's ( bullied ). Suddenly , I cry with harder to breath and worrying too much about college. I'm running to bathroom quickly to release my worriness. About that , I feel dizzy , headache , and going through into death. Also , my body is shaking too. And , what should I do to him ? I want to tell him , if it is impolite to sharing it.
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