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Lesleya22
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PathStep 7 Compassion hearts42 Forum posts9 Forum upvotes10 Current upvotes10 Age GroupAdult Last activeMay, 2020 Member sinceMarch 1, 2020
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Frustrated by friends and anxious
Anxiety Support / by Lesleya22
Last post
 March 4th, 2020
...See more I was in an emotionally abusive relationship that just ended last Tuesday- I was used for money, and was expected to drop everything and everyone for this guy. He would belittle my feelings and tell me they're invalid because sometimes I couldn't explain why I felt a certain way. He would never listen to me when fought, blaming me for our constant arguments. We never found resolutions because he just would talk over me. I was in another emotionally abusive relationship before this one, but this was much worse. I'm angry and so hurt that I gave it my all and was honestly in it for the right reasons and was sucked in by his trickery. My friends saw through him, and now they pretty much just act like it was no big deal. A few of my friends are single and get mad when I say that I hope I eventually meet someone nice. I'm tired of listening to people and their problems, but most of the time I can't really get people to listen to me. I've got a past history of getting into relationships when I shouldn't, but I learned a lot this go around. Is it a crime to eventually want to be happy with a man? I don't think so.
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Frustrated by friends and anxious
Anxiety Support / by Lesleya22
Last post
 March 7th, 2020
...See more I was in an emotionally abusive relationship that just ended last Tuesday- I was used for money, and was expected to drop everything and everyone for this guy. He would belittle my feelings and tell me they're invalid because sometimes I couldn't explain why I felt a certain way. He would never listen to me when fought, blaming me for our constant arguments. We never found resolutions because he just would talk over me. I was in another emotionally abusive relationship before this one, but this was much worse. I'm angry and so hurt that I gave it my all and was honestly in it for the right reasons and was sucked in by his trickery. My friends saw through him, and now they pretty much just act like it was no big deal. A few of my friends are single and get mad when I say that I hope I eventually meet someone nice. I'm tired of listening to people and their problems, but most of the time I can't really get people to listen to me. I've got a past history of getting into relationships when I shouldn't, but I learned a lot this go around. Is it a crime to eventually want to be happy with a man? I don't think so.
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